a MAJOR jerk PLEASE answer this PLEASE!?

Question

this guy USED to like me and i NICELY rejected me.
now hes a MAJOR jerk. he calls my hair a 'birds nest' and coos when i'm around. today he hung up a sign in spanish that said BIRDS NEST and pointed to me. the teacher is in her 60's and has cataracts and is retiring this year so she doesn't pay attention. then he told me he hopes i get stabbed in the heart! that HURTS! i don't know what to do i don't want to tell because i've had bulling issues earlier in the year and i don't want the principal thinking that everyone hates me! also theres only 7 days left.

PLEASE help!

thank you!
any suggestions are helpful.

i think i want REVENGE. i know that sounds bad but i've put up with this ALL year!


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thanks!

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ignoring makes it WORSE. hes over rejection. and he keeps calling me names and pushing and saying RUDE things PLEASE revenge ideas. :]
also we're FRESHMAN in HS not in like 4th grade thats how it feels so thats why i NEED revenge!

Answer 1

Im dealing with some jerks from my school right now too. Now I know the golden rule is do onto others as you would want them to do onto you...but hell..you cant just let him keep on bothering you. middle school/highschool guys can be extreme jerks like that because they've got alot of ego and false pride. now I know it sounds bad, and its probably not the best thing to do, but I would dish it back. I mean, if you ignore him he's probably gonna keep it up so you gotta do something, right? Does he have any imperfections like a big nose, freckles, an abnormaly high pitched voice, huge ears? Is there anything you can rip on him about? Just really try to find something...and when you do, go for it! Also, tell some of the girls you think he wants some nasty false rumers about him. Just start up some nasty sick things about him, and pretty soon his ego should deflate. And if that isnt enough, dump a powerade in his locker or stick gum to it..
Im sorry, I know it sounds soo bad, but yah..I know what its like to need revenge! If you dont want to do any of that, schools almost out anyway, and then you probably wont have to deal with him so much, right?

Answer 2

Okay, this guy sounds VERY much in love with you, and he is VERY angry at being rejected. It doesn't matter that you rejected him NICELY. True that he is acting like a jerk, but only because that's how much it hurts HIM. He must have liked you a lot in order to react so strongly to you telling him "no". You know how thin the line between love and hate can be - one day you love this person, but love quickly turns to hate, and the two can sometimes strangely mix together. This guy has spent a WHOLE YEAR getting his "revenge" on you by teasing you and doing mean things. The fact that he teases you is another strong indicator that he likes you - the schoolboy will always punch the girl he likes best. Remember that next time you think he is doing this because he does not like you.
If he did not like you, he would not bother to waste so much of his time and determination putting you down. The opposite of love is not hate - it's indifference.
Since his behavior is bordering on the obsessive, I suggest you wait until the next time he is mean to you. The after class or somewhere where he is alone, you say "Can I talk to you?". And say it in a serious tone - don't be scared. He is the one who will be scared. Tell him STRAIGHT UP "Stop being an immature brat and leave me alone. If you don't I'll go to the principal - and WHO CARES what the principal thinks of you??! His job is to scare little bullies like him. And through all this, remember how much he likes you - he is probably feeling lonely and stays up every night thinking about why you would not go out him. And his new plans for revenge.
After you tell him in private, he won't dare do it again - for fear he will have to face YOU again. And besides, he's crazy about you! Use that to your advantage. Best Wishes and Good Luck

Answer 3

The easiest way to defeat a bully is to confront him. He clearly knows it bothers you or he would not do it.

Think of something clever to say in response like I know its hard on you, clearly or you wouldn't continue to pay attention to me, that I wouldn't go out with you but you are aware there are school counselors to help you deal with it. I mean I was flatered at first I've just been to busy to consider any relationships but now I'm relieved I didn't allow your pursuit. Poor thing.

Then walk away. It will make him mad but you clearly have already hurt his ego or he wouldn't be doing what he is doing but and there is a big BUT let your parents know and your school counselor. Also if he does it in a particular class or what not say something to your teacher. And be honest I'm not being difficult but it concerns me that he has taken it so hard that I rejected him and I think it may do some good for someone to speak to him. Then let it go. 7 days isn't long and next year is a whole new year.

Remember the best revenge that can be taken is to live better than they ever excpted.

Answer 4

Lol you know when a guy picks on you like that he likes you. I know you don't like him but he still likes you and hes acting out on it by calling you names. Openly tell him that your sorry hes got the love jones on you so bad that he calles you names. Tell him it will be all right that he will find another girl someday just not today. That is your revenge because its true and he just wants attention. If hes gonna let the class know you have a birds nest for hair tell the class about what i just told you. It might just shut him up! Try not to let him fuel your fire though by getting upset and reacting to him just be witty like the thing I wrote up there. Stuff like that challenges his feelings and he should get the message really quick!

Answer 5

Yeah, I dated this boy in sixth grade and then he started going to a different middle school. We ended up at the same high school together and I had a new boyfriend as it was, but he denied dating me and was pretty rude to me until one of his friends was hitting on me. Then all of a sudden his memory came back. I never really went off on him, but that may be what you need to do. I would just say in front of people "Don't be mad because you wanted to date me and I said no, man up and take the rejection." If you really don't want to speak up though then just keep ignoring him. You only have seven days left and he will forget about you next year. Wipe your butt with that peice of toilet paper and flush him down the toilet. Let it go.

Answer 6

yea, I think that you should ignore him! He is mad you are rejecting him and now he acting out like a 2nd grader. Does your hair look nice? Is so, then don't worry about it. You have to be happy in your own skin before anyone else will respect you. He can't accept rejection, let him know that you dont like jerks, and that he might have had a chance if he had just an inkling of a personality

Answer 7

It's really funny if he calls your hair birds nest, you can say back to him" IF my hair is a birds nest why in the past you say that you love me and want to be my boyfriend?" He just wants to make you feel terrible, sadder,confuser,sorrow,etc ( all the bad feelings). But the madder you are and the sadder you are,the happier he will be.So just ignore him and say to him as what i tell you. And now don't you think that he's really funny^^ Good luck and GBU

Answer 8

Regardless that there are only 7 days left, you should tell someone because what started out as simple teasing now has a violent tone. He may not be serious, but do you really want to take that chance if is serious? I am urging you to tell someone, an authority figure - teacher, parent, even your best friends parent!!

Answer 9

He knows you are sensitive and using that against you. Next time he coos at you are calls your hair a bird's nest, just tell him he is jealous he isn't nesting in it. Don't take people so literally. Life is too short for that.

Answer 10

Hopes (good expectations) of you getting stabbed in the heart sounds like a possible death threat to me (Especially in this day and age). I'd let the principal and/or the police know about this. I'd also be sure to let your parents know first.