There is this boy in my afew of my classes, and we do not really talk. Acationally we talk to eachother about like homework or we talk about little things like what happend on the last tv show or stupid stuff like that. At first i didnt really see him more then a friend, but now as the days go by, i love him even more then i have ever loved another guy. I don't know why and i don't understand this feeling im having, but all i know is it hurts so much. I can never stop thikning about him and i don't get good night sleeps. When he talks to me my whole arm tingles and my eyes melt. I truly am in love with a guy, and i think i am going to explode. I barley even talk to him, and he gives me goos bumps. PLEASE PLEASE help me
2007-05-17 08:58:44 · 8 answers · asked by lucyfrell93 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first you need to calm down. Many other people have been through this. You are not going to die. You were friends first, that's good. Now, you can be better friends. I do not know how old you are, but it sounds like you are kind of young. Go slow and ease into things. You do not have to fall all over him. Find some things in common and hang out together. If it all works out you have a really good relationship, but don't ruin it by scaring him off. Don't be needy and don't push him into showing his feelings until he is ready.
2007-05-17 09:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good! First step is accepting. But you need to get accepted as well. Better let him know of your feelings for him. It would be the wisest thing - else you would end up being given a polite 'no' - like if he is madly in love with another girl or something like that. It would cause more heartache for you at a later stage than the initial ones. So, shoot it, speak to him, let him know of your feelings, if he is for you, you will get him. If not it will save the heartbreaks for both of you.
Good Luck!!!!
2007-05-17 16:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by bk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this is not love. Look, if you stop thinking of him and think of someone else the same way you think about him, the feelings will follow. You may be attracted to this guy. You can be attracted, really, really attracted to someone, and it still is not love. It's a trick of your mind and emotions.
If you really love someone, and they love you, it is always a mutual thing. You won't need to wonder about it. Be careful. Guard your heart. Watch where you go in your mind when you are attracted to someone. You will save yourself a lot of tears and sleepless nights if you teach yourself now not to let your mind take you there.
Lorri
2007-05-17 16:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lorri K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've addressed your own problem. You never talk to him. If you want to further your relationship with this guy, all you have to do is talk to him.
As for love? I doubt it. You don't really know the guy and you admitted that you rarely even talk to him. I think that you need to initiate a bit more conversation and get to know him a bit better before you profess your love for him. Love? No. Lust? Yes.
2007-05-17 16:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by Derkum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is nothing more than puppy love. You are not in love per say, you are just obsessed with him. Try to enjoy it...don't let it hurt you in any way. You just have a major crush. If it's meant to be, he will make a move. In the meantime, don't dwell on it too much and enjoy your "wonder years".
2007-05-17 16:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Princesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you is talk to him more afften. i mean you only see him at school rhigt, well maybe you should talk to him more like say what is his favorte band, you questions like that and who knows maybe you will become the bestest frineds and maybe he will like like you
-val
2007-05-17 16:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by val n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and tell him..dont wait...maybe he too might be feeling the same...!!!
Good luck...and best wishes...take care.
2007-05-17 16:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously does not love you. Does that help?
2007-05-17 16:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋