Ok heres the short version. I have be seeing this guy on and off for about six months. We just stating hanging out again when he asked me to stay the night. I did and we made out alot and we where going to sleep together but we didn't have a condom. So we didn't do anything more then alot of touching and kissing. We gropped each other alot and he was on top of me.We where not completely nake but he was all most. I am still a virgin and he said he didn't want to push me into anything. So my question is with me saying I would sleep with him is that still considerin anyway putting out? Its not that I didn't want to I did and he did, but we didn't because he didn't have a condom not becuse I didn't want to Also his friend keeps saying to him that everytime I am around he almost but his foot in his mouth what is that about. Cause on of the time he says ............or shut up what whould that be about. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!
2007-05-17 08:07:10 · 13 answers · asked by eeyore_smiles_2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you so worried about what to call it? Contrary to popular belief, it is not necessary to label everything you do in life. Some things are just better as experiences and they get ruined when we force them into a category. I know this probably doesn't make any sense to you...but anywho, that's just my two cents.
2007-05-17 08:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by Clever_Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That whole thing about him not trying to pressure you doesn't make since with the fact that he asked you to spend the night. Just because you said you would doesn't mean you did or should have to later. If there is reason to doubt about having sex with him don't do it. When the time is right it will all come together and you won't have to question to do it or not. Condoms aren't 100% effective and do not protect against STD's. If you are worried about getting pregnant, Protect yourself first.
2007-05-17 15:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, he's obviously quite into you, and respects you enough to not force or encourage you to have sex, it's just one night when things didn't work out the way he or you had planned. There will be other nights, and I'm sure both of you can wait untill you can find a perfect ocassion.
2007-05-17 15:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by tom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all one question at a time.. you seem really confused.relax girl.. relax.. now.. if you were gonna sleep with him but didn't have a condom..yes you did put out...his friend is saying he's messing him self up. don't worry about it too much, it's just guy talk.. we like to bust each others balls sometimes.. third question... i don't even understand your question.. your grammar is wrong. "cause on of the time he says" what are you trying to say?
2007-05-17 15:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by moose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't have sex you did not put out! He sounds like a pretty responsible guy (not pressuring you, adamant about using a condom) I can't see him giving you a reputation for "Putting Out".
2007-05-17 15:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was the short version??
It all depends on how you define "putting out." You seem to be defining "putting out" as intercourse, which you didn't do. However, you did engage in activities designed to provide mutual sexual gratification. On that basis, I belief you "put out" but just didn't go all the way.
2007-05-17 15:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't he have a condom. Um, dangerous that is. If you didn't do it. It ain't so bad, but carry a condom, lovie, you don't want to get the sh*ts now do you
2007-05-17 15:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by TJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you stop climbing into bed with boys and letting them feel you up while getting almost naked. That's really not classy behavior at all. You're acting like a skank.
2007-05-17 15:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it not just go get a condom simple as that when ur ready
2007-05-17 15:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand the question?
2007-05-17 15:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by shortstuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋