well i have a girl that i work with and i like her a whole lot...she is really sweet and i just dont want to mess things up with her. Im talkin to her and we are gettin really close but i dont know what i need to do or how fast or slow to take it you know..but get back and give me some help aight
2007-05-17 07:59:45 · 18 answers · asked by Prettyboi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take it slow, she will appreciate it and if she wants it to move faster then she wil give u signs to do so ok. but take it slow otherwise ull put her off, hope this helps babe xx
2007-05-17 08:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs Lewis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the point that the relationship is I wouldn't worry to much about how fast or slow it should go. The more you worry about it the more likely you are to do something that maybe you should avoid like moving to fast. I would just take it day by day, feel her out. If she seems to want to go slower, then slow it down, and if it gets to the point that you feel it should be going faster then be open with her and talk to her about where the two of you stand. But where you two are right now, you really have no reason to be concerned with how fast or slow it should go, take it day by day, enjoy this time that you two have to get to know eachother because eventually you really get to know eachother and that's when it becomes complicated. Take your time get to know eachother on more of a coworker/friend bases and go from there, but just remember to take it day by day. Good Luck!
2007-05-17 15:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by jennqt341 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. You don't want either of you to lose your jobs.
Tell her that you like how she's always nice to customers -even when they might not be nice to her. Stuff like that. That's cool.
Ask if she'd like to go out for coffee after work 'cause work is really not the place to "talk." If she says yes, then good. If not, then be cool. shrug and say OK maybe another time. Smile and don't show your hurt because you work with her.
Continue to talk and be friends 'cause one of these days she may just say "yes."
But this time, slow and steady wins the race.
2007-05-17 15:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow and steady is always a good option. Let her decide the speed and pace at which the relationship should move. You want her to be comfortable and you don't want to rush. Let her take the lead for a bit and soon it'll all mesh together. Good luck :)
2007-05-17 15:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by lauraking83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow!! Let her get used to you and close enough to you before you even go there.
Its still a new friendship, work on it. After that you can decide later on what then next course of action is. Maybe you might be pleasantly suprised and she might make the move.
Time!! Is important!!
2007-05-17 15:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by MichM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bring up a conversationa bout a movie and be like "oh we should go see it together" don't set a time. if she is interested she will bring it up again. as for the being at work thing deal with it, if it works great if not then you thats ok to
2007-05-17 15:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...Its always hard when it comes down to work relationships. The can be fantastic but then again they can end terribly. I suggest taking it slow and see what pace she is looking to go at.
2007-05-17 15:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow & don't rush or you'll have an undesired relationship outcome. Just stay sweet & romantic to her.
2007-05-17 15:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go out with a girl from work. Let's say you hit it off, and THEN it gets sour. Oooooh not were I'd want to be mate. Trust me.
2007-05-17 15:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by TJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say you like her, go for it, if it don't work out atleast you found out now if it does you found out now and no time is wasted. Good Luck!
2007-05-17 15:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by shllkng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋