without paying for it....
2007-05-17 07:47:29 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to show her who is in charge, be dominant. They are used to have men running after them slobbering and begging for sex and they don't respect them. Show her that you are not going to put up with it and that you do not need to pay for it.
2007-05-17 07:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Beast from the East 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer to this is simple assuming you have looks and personality that she would normally be interested in. I have dated 2 strippers in my "dating life time" and the same approached worked both times.
1. Don't get couch dances from any of the strippers at the club where she works.
2. Don't get a couch dance from her (until after you are dating and then it is great fun).
3. Offer to buy her a drink. Most strippers are required to have a certain number of drinks purchesd for them. This is due to the over priced drinks that the club makes money off of.
4. While sharing a drink with her DONT LOOK AT HER (.)(.) or her (Y). Look her in the eyes and talk to her.
5. If you are going to compliment her dont tell her she has great "assets". She hears the 100 times a night. Compliment her hair, smile, or eyes.
6. Don't ask her the 1st time in the club or even the 5th time in the club. Dating a stripper involves you becoming a regular and building the trust of the doorman, DJ, bartender, and others.
7. Watch which one of the other strippers she talks to the most when on the floor. This is her friend and often times her roommate. Talk to her roommate about anything but what most men talk to at a strip club and then mention that you think "the blonde she was talking to earlier" is cute.
Again, if you have the looks and personality that this stripper would normally be interested in then this will work.
2007-05-17 07:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are on here looking for advice on how to get a date with a stripper without paying for it no less, you need more help than what you can get on the Internet.
2007-05-17 07:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where'd you meet her, in the strip club?? If that's the only place the two of you know each other, odds are she ain't going out with you. I'm sure PLENTY of guys ask strippers for their number, to go out, and a bunch of other things in the club.
If you can talk to her in another environment, try sparking up a conversation then, and ask her out.
Um... no stalking to find her outside the club though!
2007-05-17 07:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by kevness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you'll put her in a movie. Then after she goes out with you and asks when she will be in the movie, deny ever saying it.
Of course if the question was "how do I get a stripper to go out with me more than once", the answer would be different.
2007-05-17 07:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol are you serious?? why would you want to go out with a stripper when you can have someone that doesnt show off her body just to you and besides your friends all seen her with ummm most of her clothes off so why would you want to do that....watch Pretty Woman and thats why you never go out with a stripper
2007-05-17 07:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by dede 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you`re confusing a stripper with a prostitute . Or are you saying that you want to go out with her just to see her strip ?. As long as you`re this confused then leave the girl alone , she can do better than you anyway.
2007-05-17 07:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by Hondaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha...well speaking from personal experience when I was a young pup...they are like any other girl; you have to spend time with them and be sweet and kind of sell yourself, etc. Unfortunately all this takes place at the strip club so you end up spending a ton of money....good luck...they are a handful...my foray into dating strippers was pretty short lived...2 of tehm over a couple year period.
2007-05-17 07:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Steelhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out the way you would with any other woman. Yes, she's a stripper but she's still a human being! Otherwise, cough up!
2007-05-17 07:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you couldn't get laid with a $100 bill hanging out of your zipper if you have to worry about going out with a stripper.
Strippers are BAD NEWS....avoid them at all cost.
2007-05-17 07:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Hugh G. Rection 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to go out with a stripper?
Ask her, then you will know how she feels, if she likes you she will say yes, if she says no. Your better off.
2007-05-17 07:50:43 · answer #11 · answered by Ben A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋