There is this guy that worked at a local grocery store and he would always smile at me and tell me hi. He is very handsome and gives me butterflies although we've never had conversations. I found out that he moved locations just a little further. I want to ask him out but I can't do it and I don't know what I should do? Does it make me look stalkerish by going to the new store? (he hasn't seen me there yet) Or do I just forget about it? I have this ginormous crush on him and I wish it would go away since I'm such a scaredy cat. Help!!!
2007-05-17 07:28:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to the new store and flirt around with him
2007-05-17 07:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know the answer to that until you try it first. If you like the guy or are at least interested in him then just ask him, the worst he can tell you is no right? So why not go for it. But don't go to the store a million times looking for him and the right moment, because there isn't a right moment, either do it and get it over with or don't do it at all.
I'm a scaredy cat too but sometimes the woman has to make the first move, just hold your head up and be strong and be yourself, that's always important. Don't dress differently or anything that is not you. You want him to see you for you not see a pretend you that's just faking it.
Good luck
2007-05-17 07:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by Linds 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would walk up to him and say hi and ask him where something was in the store. Have him take you there. Then have him go take you some where else and get that item. Then ask him what his favorite wine is. Then ask him to go to dinner. You can cook or go out. Cooking is much more fun....
2007-05-17 07:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by flyfish_777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dosent really look like a stalker just go to the new store and "accidentally" run into him. if he ask you why you have came to that store just say"i drove by and i needed to pick something up" and just flirt with him and if he likes you too he'll ask you out =P
2007-05-17 07:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you would look like a stalker. You missed your chance. Move on.
2007-05-17 07:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't care about you or he would have asked you out by now. Give it up.
2007-05-17 07:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a rumour!
2007-05-17 07:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by milo13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋