She wants sex 10 times a day if not more and its wearing me out. I love her more than life itself but to much of anything is bad. she also wants to try new ways to do it however when you consider how often we do it its not easy inventing new ways.I have read sex books for ideas but thats not what she wants she wants me to invent new ways.I am considering asking her if she would like to have a threesome with another woman and me however she has abad jealous streak and this might not work. I am running out of ideas what can I do she never uses yahoo answers and she has no clue I am asking for help so again what can I do?
2007-05-17 06:44:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lol, that's funny. I think there's a lot of guys who'd wish they were you now.
2007-05-17 06:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok doll. i can relate that without a doubt!! (except one of them he wanted sex all the time but i didnt because it was really BAD sex. so atleast u should feel good that she likes it so much that all she wants is sex.) a couple of my boyfriends have been like that and the first rule is communication. express to her how you feel. sure, ask her if she wants a threesome but also tell her that you're getting a little worn out and that you think that your relationship will be better if u guys slow down a little. distance makes the heart grow fonder. too much of a good thing isn't always healthy. remember that. also. instead of trying new positions, try doing it in different places. get inventive. get risky! hope it all works out!
2007-05-17 07:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by unlikexne1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like something in her past messed with her self esteem and she feels that by having sex so much will keep you close to her. I would talk to her on a complete honest base and ask if she was abused either physically or mentally.
I had a girlfriend like that years ago and we eventually got married. She wanted more friends and she wound up having sex with other people than me. Her answer took a long time to come out but, it was her father abusing her sexually and mentally. She did get better about it later after sharing it with someone. If I were you I wouldn't make a commitment that you may regret later.
Opening her up to talk about it needs to be done gently by asking if if she would like to ask and answer things about your relationship.
ie: Can I ask you some personal questions and if you want you can ask me some. Don't launch directly into asking about abuse, this will put her into a defense mode. Ask if she would tell you about how she was brought up and if her family was supportive. Tell her how you feel about her and hold her
Good luck and do be supportive
2007-05-17 07:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, your girlfriend sounds like me! So maybe I can be of some help. My husband is usually the one asking for it but lately he hasn't been doing a very good job sealing the deal if you know what I mean!! So with out being to crude, are you getting off? Is she? Do you both orgasm? Do you eat out when she wants you to? Are you being passionate about it or are you acting like it's a chore? Maybe someone else is hitting on her and arousing her and she is doing her best not to cheat... so she is demanding it from you a lot more because someone else has her hot and bothered. Consider all of that. Good luck, if none of that works try buying a toy:) Pureromance.com or slumberparties.com
2007-05-17 06:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Barn Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all get out a pen and paper and write this one to Penthouse Forum. If your sex drives are misaligned then I would suggest either getting out of the relationship, buying some toys that she can use to help her condition, having her go to sex addict meetings.
2007-05-17 06:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am suprised a guy is saying this. Maybe it is her way of keeping you happy becasue she thinks you want it all the time too. Talk to her and tell her your thoughts and ask her why.
2007-05-17 06:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by *Butterfly* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her the rabbit, and do you really want to invite the idea of others coming in to satisfy her
2007-05-17 06:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask about the threesome but first introduce toys and movies and in public places, she sounds like me insatiable my man hates it to so now i have to use toys alot. it helps try them
2007-05-17 06:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're complaining about too much sex? Aren't you a guy?
2007-05-17 06:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Dallas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you';ve posted this before-- she is addicted, an you arent the only guy she is having sex with
she needs a doctor
2007-05-17 06:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋