what would you do if someone kept saying this to you?

Question

i have a bf that ive been dating for 3 months and he has never introduced me to his kids. he is always saying he is behind on things he has to do after he has spent quality time with me. he spent the day with me and once we got to work which he was late he told the supervisor he was really tired cause he is not getting any rest. i over heard this. well i told him ever since ive known him he says this and maybe i should back off. well he got mad he said im always saying that and that maybe i should. well how would you feel if every time you spend time with someone they are always saying that they have been neglecting their responsibilities, not getting any rest, and you only see them on their schedule. am i wrong for feeling like im keeping him away from his life? he never spends weekends with me and he mostly see me at night when we are off work which is late. he has to go home early to see his kids off to school. so what would you do. now he hates me for saying im backing off.

Answer 1

Sounds like he looks for excuses for not doing what he should. This isn't your fault or responsibility. I suggest you get out of this before you need him to take responsibility for you. You know the pattern. It is what he does.

Answer 2

I think you should back off. Sounds like he is keeping something from you. It's only been 3 months. You should cut away now before things get more serious.

Answer 3

I'd say that this guy is a moron! If a girl told me that all the time I would look at that girl and say then we don't need to be together if its going to make you irresponsible. Its his problem you don't need him.

Answer 4

Sounds like he's married

Answer 5

He should make you more part of his life.

Answer 6

Sounds like he's creeping, not on you, but his wife...