2007-05-17 06:17:57 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For a short period it may be OK. May not be so good for a long relationship.
2007-05-17 06:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow, my fiancee is 10 years older. Your man is 20 yrs your senior. It can work out if there is an age difference and I personally believe an older man with a younger woman is the way to go, but you are very very young. 18 yrs old - you're still trying to figure out who you are as a person and what you want to be in this world.You 'think' you love him, see...you aren't sure! I would date casually and see other people a bit younger (10-15 yrs younger maybe :). He is 39, he knows you are quite young which makes one wonder what his intentions are. If you were 28 and he was older it would be a bit different. Take care of yourself.
2007-05-17 06:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is just gross. He is an OLD man compared to you. What can you have in common?How can a grown man have a conversation of substance with a kid?
He must not be very grown up or you must be way too worldly.
If you were my daughter I would be having a FIT! If he were my son, I would be questioning his sanity!
Spend more time with the English language, so you can read about other disasters like this.
No, you won't make it. But it's a good thing.
When you are in your forties, still young and agile, and in your prime, he will be using a cane, and unable to "perform." He will be talking about arthritis and what meds he is on, and you will be bored and frustrated out of your mind!
Any kids you will have will have a 60-70-year-old daddy when they graduate. They will be so embarrassed.
Play with him if you must, but don't MARRY him or live with him. ICK!
You can LOVE people and not marry them.
2007-05-17 06:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this man married? Does he have a family out there and kids and using you as his woman on the side? You really have to know what kind of background this guy comes from. Some older men think themselves lucky to be with a younger woman it could be a fantasy come true to some. You really have to dig around and find out who he is. If it so happens that he does have a wife and kids out there (which would not be a surprise for his age) then I don’t think you should get involved. You deserve more than someone who is going to make you his younger mistress. You really need to find out what his intentions are, and you have to KNOW for a fact that it is more than just sex he wants. Don’t be naïve in thinking that everything he says is going to be the truth, some men will say whatever it takes to get what they want; so make sure he is not taking advantage of your vulnerability and your emotions. If it so happens that he is a great guy and you still like him then you have to decide what you want from the relationship. Age is just a number and it doesn’t make the person who they are BUT you have to know that it may only be able to go so far. Do you want someone who you can have a long term relationship with? Kids one day someone you can take out with your friends, introduce to your parents? Think about all the consequences of what this age difference is going to mean to your life, living in the moment can get you in trouble in time to come. If you can live with all the difficulties that the age difference may pose then it is up to you if you want to be with him. No one can tell someone when not to be in love and who to be in love with, But make sure that you are careful.
Good luck.
2007-05-17 06:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee your kinda young for a 39 year old man, but I could see the attraction is probably cos he treats you good and he's mature unlike the guys closer to your age. But you say you THINK you love him, just enjoy the relationship for now, if your ever SURE that you love him live with him for a while and see if it works. If it does go for it, if it doesn't move on.
2007-05-17 06:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by ♥RaCheL♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be very happy for the next 5 , 10 , 20 years even. when he turns 60 and you are 31, or sooner , sexual, health , infidelity risks are huge on your part. If the love deepens before then and you are a monagamous type , you have a chance, wish yoiu the best of luck.
2007-05-17 06:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a big age difference but if both of you are mature enough to work through any problems that may come up, then I'd say you were just fine. Beware though, most people will probably see the age difference as a young woman's attempt to gain a sugar daddy.
Good luck to you!
2007-05-17 06:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you thinking? This guy is either a 39 year old virgin or a pedophile. Hes more then twice your age, why dont you date a 21 year old instead?
2007-05-17 06:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by Par 4 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We don't know whether this relationship will make it. If you truly believe you both have the dedication AND compatibility to make this relationship work, then go for it. My personal experience in dating an older guy was that, while we loved each other, we simply did not have enough in common to sustain a long-term relationship. YOu may have better luck than I did. Good luck.
2007-05-17 06:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theoretically it is possible to make it. But a compatibility crisis often arises when there is a big age difference, as in your case. Initially everything appears hunky dory. You start to feel the pinch much later. So put some thought in the matter before proceeding further.
2007-05-17 07:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask these questions 2 urself and decide!!!!
com'on yar!
just be logical, this's life han!
u can hav some tests like these....
wud u like ur daughter to do like this?
r u ready to care for a senile man when it's time fo you to go on interesting tours?
can u find that sweet cute love with him that a gal of 18 has a right to find in his sweet heart?
r u so undeserving fo a young smart boy?
just open up, and luk into this world yar, there r many many nice guys difficult to chose from?
that man in the second last stage of life needs a support, n people often take their need as love!
agar ab b bat samaj nai ai then...aish karo!!! tumhara kuch nai ho sakta!!!
2007-05-17 07:28:22 · answer #11 · answered by preet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋