i have anorexia and i am 14. ihave almost died of it. what do guys look for in girls is it all about there looks.
2007-05-17 06:04:43 · 6 answers · asked by singingqueen 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
The ones who really care for you and want to be with you want the you package. Its not the looks but the personality, your brains, you dreams and desires. Passion and love always come before looks.Any real man likes a girl with meat on the bones. a girl with a great sense of humor and a love for life always is first on the list. You either click with someone or not body size should never come in to play. Find someone to love you for you and not that your thin or overweight.
2007-05-17 06:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by J C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well first off, although, to some extent, looks probably matter to just about everybody, and they are pretty much all that matters to some people, it's just part of the picture, and different people are going to value different things, there is no one-size-fits-all answer for what guys (or, for that matter) girls are looking for.
Secondly, weight loss does not equal increasing attractiveness. There is definitely a point beyond which loosing more weight makes one less attractive rather than more. Thin is attractive, but be healthy, skeletal is not attractive to anyone.
There have been studies done in the past which indicate that most women believe that men prefer them to be less thin than they think. For example, with the same frame, let's say that in general men think that a given woman should weight 120 pounds (just a number, the ideal varies by height and body type), that same woman would feel that she should weight 110 or 105 pounds, despite the fact that it's a less attractive weight to guys.
If what you want is really just to be as attractive as possible, then stay at a healthy weight (BMI between 19 and 25), and exercise, which, coincidentally, is also the healthiest thing to do.
2007-05-17 06:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by The Doc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Good guys are looking for a good personality, a good sense of humor and things you have in common. Please take care of yourself and get some help for your anorexia. It is not worth dying over.
2007-05-17 11:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Be original and be truthful to yourself.
Be nice and open-minded, and you will have all the attention you need.
Good luck, and bon appetit!
2007-05-17 06:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by afflatus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most and likely because if your not pretty then they don't want you but if your in anorexia then they don't want you like that .
they want somebody that has meat on their bones they don't want somebody skinny
2007-05-17 06:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by wingard_jessica 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
its not about looks for me. just be nice and be yourself.
2007-05-17 06:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jolt33 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋