I think I am straight, I have never been attracted to females until recently. We talk everyday and night for hours, we visit each other and lately we have started to touch each other in sexual ways and last week we cam so close to kissing but no one would make the final move. I've never dated a girl and she's never been with a girl but when we are together it feels so natural to touch and flirt. I think about her all the time and I wanna experience being with her but I am scared abd I know she is so what should I do? How do I have an experience that I know nothing about. What do i suppose to do? If we kiss, then what happens? I wanna be with her but I am clueless about what to do with her. I need honest answers!!!
2007-05-17 06:01:17 · 14 answers · asked by curious girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should relax and let it happen naturally...it sounds like you're both interested in exploring it, and you know each other well, so it might be a good chance for both of you to explore that side of yourselves...I guess the important thing is that you're both comfortable doing it and just let it happen as you feel comfortable with it. There's no need to be scared about it. Have fun with it :)
If you're still nervous and have questions, e-mail me sometime...I can ask my friend who's into girls. I'm sure she could give some advice :) Good luck :)
2007-05-17 12:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by jen l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very serious line that you want to cross and there is no going back once it's crossed......You really need to know the consequences of this action.
Right now you are curious and to be honest everyone is but only a few will admit it.......The fear is keeping you lined up with what you Know already. Men are to be with Women and vice versa.....You Know this Already.
Personally I would recommend that you stay away from this girl, because once you cross this line you will always question yourself and question if she ever told anyone.
She could stab you in the back and tell everyone what you did and never tell anyone that she was the one who it was with. Your reputation would be ruined because you will never be able to stand up and say That is a lie.
If you do this you can say that it was a lie but you and God would know that it was the truth.....It may hurt right now to walk away from your friend, but I promise it will benefit you in the long run. Been There Done That One.....Girl this is the most painful thing that I have ever done. Walking away!!!!
Keep yourself innocent and pure on this subject.
2007-05-17 13:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a hetrosexual woman so can't help with the details of what to do with/to her - sorry on that score! But if you are in love with her and want to experiment then talk to her. It sounds as though you are both feeling interested in taking this further, so be brave and talk to her about it. There is nothing wrong with being bi or gay as long as you treat the person you are with with respect and care no matter what their sexuality. I hope you enjoy your new experience, and remember if its her first time with a girl as well then you can learn together.
2007-05-17 13:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by Strawberry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just follow your feelings and see what happens. Remember in the movie Back to the Future, Marty McFly's mom had a crush on him when he was back in time. As soon as she kissed him she knew it was wrong. Maybe that will happen or maybe the opposite. Stay tuned for more relationship answers from Back to the Future.
2007-05-17 13:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by jimmer333 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to talk with her about your feelings for her. see how she feels about you two experimenting together. if she is really into you the way you say then it should be a go. just be natural, relax and have fun. im sure its not that much different kissing a girl than a guy. good luck, be safe, and enjoy! :)
2007-05-17 13:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by million$? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is very important that you explore this potential relationship with your friend. I know a lot of people who later in life regret something or ask themselves what could have been. You should invite her over and open a bottle of wine and start something beautiful.
2007-05-17 13:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by scott m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps it's just cursoity perhaps more sounds like it's something you need to experience not just want to you may should try talking to her and see where you stand seems to me the feeling between the two of you are so strong perhaps this may be something you should go thru with
2007-05-17 13:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by sassysandyinmi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is wrong. I have never believed that way. I am a Christian and God tells us in the Bible that that is wrong. Period. I think you just need to grow up a little and you'll grow out of it.
2007-05-17 17:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Happy in love! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
basically just follow your heart...maybe a kiss will determine if you should be together or not..i say go for the kiss...see what happens...after the kiss just take it day by day! she doesnt know what to do either...so its all good
2007-05-17 13:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by hot_jess76 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find you a boyfriend fast!
2007-05-17 13:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by p00756 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋