if guys want to cheat WHY do u get in a relationship with someone or go out with a buncha different girls and not be up front and tell her ur not wanting to be serious with just one person? why do u involve feelings of a female if all u want to do is play around from the beginning? why not just stay single and keep dating??
2007-05-17 05:15:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's what i ask myself i mean it's so dumb i think most guys do it just for the thrill and knowing that they are doing something wrong excites them.
But to me it's dumb to think that they would mess up a relationship for what? i 5 minute sh*g? If they don't want to be with someone they should just let them know instead of stringing them along and hurting them.
But anyway what goes around normally comes around.
2007-05-17 05:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. There's physical aspects that dominate a guy, but when it boils down to it, not all men are this way. Men who focus their lives on Christ and walk in the Word can usually control fleshly lusting. If you are fed up with this type of behavior then seek what you want and lead by example too...don't be over flirtatious and set your boundaries. Guys that don't have maturity or any Godly focus in their lives live this way, and the only way to beat it is turn to God to live your life and you'll find the spouse that's for you.
2007-05-17 12:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by huskergo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you just described is not a "guy" thing. It is a "person" thing. Cheating and "playing" is not limited to guys, so knock that crap off. I have seen just as many, if not a few more, women cheaters than men. Cheaters have no self respect, no respect for others and need to find the capability of thinking rationally. Real MEN don't cheat, imature boys do.(same for women and girls)
2007-05-17 12:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most of these cheaters know that women want commitment and won't give them anything unless they have the commitment. Men lie. Not all of them, but the players do. Date him long enough to know if he's a cheater or not before you give him anything that a committed woman would give.
2007-05-17 12:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by Aiden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would make the lives of all involved so much easier, wouldn't it?
Selfish people however (which is what cheaters are) don't think or care about other people's feelings...only their own.
2007-05-17 12:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they tell you that, they may not get the cookie. They tell the same story to different girls over and over and over and over and over, till it gets stale and they invent a new on.
2007-05-17 12:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Bantree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like kowing that they have somebody at the end of the day who they can come running to if all else goes wrong.
2007-05-17 12:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by sonic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want the best of both worlds.
2007-05-17 12:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by MJ MCK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question. Answer that you cheats!!
2007-05-17 12:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want their cake and eat it to.
2007-05-17 12:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by Bunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋