How do I stop being so mean with my mom?

Answer 1

Figure out what is causing you to be so mean to her and then deal with it like an adult instead of an emotionally stunted kid.

Answer 2

Try being nice for short periods of time and praise yourself when you are. Try to find things that you both like to do together (maybe go out for lunch or shopping or do crafts together or go to the library). You need to find a way to bond with her and form a relationship. When that happens you will most likely stop being so mean because her feelings will mean more to you. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 3

Develp a uplifting positive attitude about life and your relationships. Try and not get angree, you may mentally say in your mind, "that sucks, but its part of life, I will be strong".
Make as many positve statement you can during the day, don't say negative thing about anyone. The attitude change will carry over into your other actions.

You may want to consider visiting the following web site, it has a lot of free information: http://www.successconsciousness.com/index_000009.htm

You may want to check out a book from the library called
"The Power of Positive Thinking: Books" by Norman Vincent Peale.

Answer 4

Just stop, it can't be taht hard. Just remember that this is the woman who went through 9 months of hell and brought you into this world. She loves and cares for you.

I have the most respect for my mum than anyone in the world as she has brought me up and taken care of me all my life and there is so much to thank her for.

The least you could do is respect her!!

Or maybe sit down and let her know what it is that's bothering you and making you liek this towards her. Im sure you can both talk this through.

Good Luck

Answer 5

You need to talk to her. First, go up to her and give her a hug, and ask how her day was. Then juss talk to her about yours. Talk toher about your life.If you want to stop being mean to her,then you need to develope a better relationship. Tell her you love her. The reason that your mean to her is prolly cuz you dont have a very strong relationship with her.You need to talkto her about your day and let her know what's going on in your life.

Answer 6

Just stop.

Then take time to speak with a school counselor or someone at your church to help you understand why you are so angry with your mom. You may find out that it is not your mom at all but something else but that you are taking it out on your mom. Best of luck.

Answer 7

When you find yourself being mean to your mother stop yourself, change your tone and give her a hug. Tell her you love her and you don't want to hurt her. She will be so proud of you!

Answer 8

Take some time and think about what your life would be like without her.......................

Now - think about what you'd want her to know if you knew she was going to die tomorrow................................................

Remember: Our time on earth isn't guaranteed!! Treat everyday like it is your last. If you love your mom, be sure she knows it now!!!!!

Getting angry with your mom sometimes in normal - allowing yourself to say things that you regret shouldn't be!! Learn to keep the hateful words to yourself.............every word that comes out of your mouth may be the last thing anyone hears from you!! Remember that!!!

Answer 9

i'm so sorry that you felt this way...anyways dear try to talk to your mom maybe theres a reason thats why you acted that way towards her...my only suggestion is to open up....i'm assuming that both of you really want to have that good relationship to each other...hey good luck

Answer 10

Only you can stop it, we can't do anything. She's your mom, why are you mean to her?