Known her for 2 years, been together for all this time, had a wonderful time together. I started a company for her to work together. Then I started magazine, because I wanted her to be special and evolve.
I took her every nice place there is. Loved her with all my heart still do more and more everyday.
I proposed to her in a lovely classy restaurant and got her a diamond ring. We had an engagement party with family and everything was great.
She is very distant now and having cold feet since the wedding day is close, she wont talk to me and says I want to think. She is living in another country and working 10 hours a day and doesn't go out much and her family not with her nor am I.
Should I travel there surprise for my birthday next week and meet her and buy her nice jewelry and flowers and take her out? I love her and want her back I cant work or do anything now.
2007-05-17 05:01:36 · 10 answers · asked by The Dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
@ Alex D : u r an asshole!!!!! A$$H.O.L.E
Good luck with ur gurl man fight for her and follow ur heart
2007-05-17 05:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by rosa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a chump. One cannot buy affection, and you should realize that no one can respect someone who acts the part of the doormat. If you continue to put this girl on a pedestal, I can guarantee that not only will you lose the girl, you will lose a good deal of time and money in the process.
Rather than fixating on placating the girl, you should work on the personal characteristics that make you attractive, and being a boot licker isn't ever attractive. Try to live a more exciting life, read more, become more cultured, focus on a hobby, and try to achieve more success in everything you do. If you do these things, you may keep the girl as she realizes that you are indeed a successful, happy person, or in the worse case you'll lose her but will be in a good place to move on quickly. It seems to me you've already lost her, she just hasn't the courage to give you the old "get lost."
2007-05-17 05:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Iota 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she does not like u if she had cold feet she would have told u and u two could have postponed the wedding but still been together. There is a better girl out there than her just let her go. i know its hard but like i said if she REALLY loved u she would have told u what the problem was
2007-05-17 05:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sheri M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have her space, and maybe cut her loose. I could be wrong, but from the looks of it, you molded her into what you wanted her to be. Maybe she's thinking this isn't what she wants. If this doesn't work, there ARE other women out there.
2007-05-17 05:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's trying to get herself together. Why don't you let her have her space and don't try to put your influence on her. I would wait it out, most likely she'll dump you but there's always a chance she won't.
2007-05-17 05:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by IKNOWALL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give her her space. I know this is not what you want to hear, but honestly whena woman says she needs time, she needs time.
2007-05-17 05:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by wooliebear07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cold feet is normal, just try and comfort her! the distance can not be easy! yes i think seeing her for your birthday will be great, presuming she is not planning on coming to you!
2007-05-17 05:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are an idiot and deserve a screwed up relationship.
M
2007-05-17 05:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
f*** her best friend it will work she'll get jealous!
2007-05-17 05:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by alex D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try whistling.
2007-05-17 05:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋