hi there, my mate ( a girl) is having problems because her boyfriend says to her that giving him head is the only way that he knows that she appreciates him...however, she doesnt want to because she doesnt feel right doing it...(by the way, we're all just 15)...and so she doesnt want to because she feels shes too young..is there any advice i can give to her?
2007-05-17 04:55:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw they been together for 8 months =|
2007-05-17 05:16:35 · update #1
yeah, she should leave him...there r plenty of other ppl who wont act like that guy..she deserves better....good luck
2007-05-17 05:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 year old boys will say anything to get "favors" or to put another notch on their bed post. (Actually, you could probably say that about males 14 - 44 years of age. We just get better at phrasing it as we get older.)
Some samples:
"You have to lose your virginity some time."
"You are the only one I want."
"I think we should take the next step."
"Everybody else is doing it."
"Come on, just try it. You will like it."
"I like you, but I would really like if you ____." (Fill in the blanks.)
etc.
If she is not comfortable with doing it, she doesn't have to. He will either accept it or he will move on to another girl.
2007-05-17 05:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Khyber6 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't could desire to do something she does not choose to. that's absolutly ridiculous! She could desire to tell this guy to wander away. all and distinctive who asks for sexual acts to coach their love does not be attentive to what genuine love is. anybody desires a courting the place the two anybody is respected and sense comfortable telling eachother something, and besides being 15 there continues to be plentyyyy of time to locate somebody who treats you and your acquaintances suited.
2016-12-11 12:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by louthan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't stay in a relationship that she is being forced to do sexual favors that she isn't interested in doing. She can go and find someone else that will RESPECT her and not put her in the situation of doing something that she feels isn't right doing.
2007-05-17 05:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by benz s55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that she needs to tell him how it makes her feel and that if he can't accept that, then he's not worth the effort of being in relationship with. If she's not ready for that kind of behavior then she has every right to say no and should be respected for her feelings.
2007-05-17 05:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Tell me something useful 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that any boy who makes her feel like crap for not doing something that she is uncomfortable doing, doesn't really care about her. He only wants to be satisfied and he has no respect for her at all. Tell her to kick him to the curb.
2007-05-17 05:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to leave that guy he's just tryna get sex from her are ya'll blind!! if she stays with that guy and listens to one word he says about appreciating him then she's stupid tell her to get out of that relationship asap!! you guys shouldn't be doing that stuff at 15 you're too young wait till you're with someone you know you'll be with for a long time and likes you for you not for sex
2007-05-17 05:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by CannaPriss♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15? whoah lol!! ok so she shouldn't force herself to do that. she'd just feel cheap and she's way too young for doing that!! her boyfriend is an ***hole and thinks only of himself. and jeez!! teenage sex isn't that great either. trust me, wait until you guys get older and see the difference.
2007-05-17 05:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by kaatje 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are all too young to be doing any of this stuff
What happens when she's pregnant and has to drop out of school and lives in poverty for life?
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2007-05-17 04:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm... call the damn cops? Seriously thats pretty wrong dude. Even you should know that. Her bf is a dick and should'nt be preying on her love like that.
2007-05-17 05:04:20 · answer #10 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋