I don't know if there's a protocol regarding this. The lady helping me out has been a godsend and I'd be embarassed if a tip is encouraged or expected and I'm unaware of this.
2007-05-17 04:20:22 · 12 answers · asked by AMY S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Not usually, the cost is included. A gracious thank you note would be welcomed, though.
2007-05-17 04:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11 is definitely too early. Is the day significant to you? Like did either of you lose someone? Because if not then having it at 11 really doesn't mean anything. Sorry to say but it's true. I'm not one to say avoid the day/time because of a bad event but to PURPOSELY change the time to 11 because of a tragedy is sort of in poor taste, no offense. I'd say do it at 1. (and you guys are having an hour and a half long ceremony? Oh lordie your poor guests). I'd see if you can get he hall open around 3:30 for guests, if not immediately after the ceremony. I hate seeing them wait more than an hour...even if there is a lot to do nearby. I go to a wedding to go to a wedding not to shop or see a movie. During this time have cocktail hour. Appetizers and drinks. ALWAYS make sure there is something available for your guests. And I'd have dinner around...ya I think 6 is good for dinner. I know our pictures took 3 hours (and we only had 12 guests at our wedding lol). So I'd give 2.5 - 3 hours for pictures. Good luck edit: Sorry, so many sick people out there these days I felt I had to say my piece about that. But I get that that isn't what you meant. I like the 11am thing now that you explained it but that would give WAAAY too much time between things. Unless you want to move your reception to a lunch reception and have it finish early. (I've heard of that quite often actually. It's becoming more and more popular)
2016-05-20 20:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you do not need to tip her. I am a wedding planner and I work with "event planners" that work at hotels and resorts where my clients get married. They are paid by their employer to be your "event planner." So, you do not need to tip them like you would your other vendors. However, if you find that they have gone above and beyond to help you in the planning stages of your wedding, then you might think about giving her a small non-monetary gift to show your appreciation. Flowers or a gift basket with a hand written thank you note would be appropriate. And I am sure that she would be so happy to have you show your appreciation since most wedding planners and hotel event planners rarely are shown appreciation in that way.
Hope this helps!
2007-05-17 05:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Wedding Planner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this lady has gone "above and beyond the call of duty" then you should do something to say "Thank you for your help." You can send her a bouquet of flowers with a Thank You note . . you can give her a gift certificate to a nice restaurant or you can give her a small gift (champagne glasses, jewelry, silk scarf, a desk clock). Some hotels and banquet halls will not permit their employees to accept monetary "Thank you" gifts but you can't go wrong with the other suggested items. Your kindess and thoughtfulness will be appreciated. Answered by: A Certified wedding specialist / A Professional bridal consultant / A Wedding ceremony officiant
2007-05-17 04:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by Avis B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A small tip of about $20 is enuf, because you are already paying for the services of the ceremony and a reception and I know to have it in a hotel you usually have to use their catering services which are a lot more expensive than providing the food on your own. Congratulations on your marriage.
2007-05-17 05:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would asked for an itemized bill and see if her fee is on there. I always thought they did get a tip. Hotel wages are pathetic. Or, call the hotel and ask if her fee is included. It will save you some embarassment and also allow you to figure it into your budget.
I tipped ours since he was wonderful and so helpful.
2007-05-20 16:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by SatinDoll1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's necessary. If you really found her to be going above and beyond her duties, give her a small bouquet of flowers.
2007-05-17 05:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO
the answer is no..
Tip the Capt.. tip the head waitor.
got it
best
2007-05-17 04:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you need to. Shoot! You've paid her enough for her services (which I know they arent cheap).
2007-05-17 04:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, tip her down the stairs....then run off and elope without paying...you've paid enuff!
2007-05-20 19:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋