me and my dad got into a fight, and he kicked me out of that house...since I'm 16 the cops and family futures can't do anything about it and I dont know what to do...please help me!!!
2007-05-17 03:09:25 · 10 answers · asked by winnie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would go to your mother, and see if she can help get you back in! Go talk to your father if that does not work. Good Luck!
2007-05-17 03:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by fjerseyman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi....This isn't good. Is there any way possible that you can go to your dad after he has cooled off to make amends? I feel this is your best option here. Sometimes a parent doesn't think before they speak however a teen doesn't realize when to keep mouth shut either at times. Now I can't take sides here since I'm not familiar on what the fight was about. You didn't give specifics. If you started the fight or issue that led up to the fight then put your flag down and your pride and go to your dad and apologize. This would help the problem extremely. Now if it was the other way around to where it was your dad's fault, then you have two options. One is to confront your dad and tell him that you didn't appreciate on what he did but since you have no where else to go that you will abide by his rules until you can get a job and turn 18. Or the other option is, be a man and apologize anyway for your actions and that you will abide by his rules and that you won't do it again. Grin and bare it so do speak, even though it wasn't your fault. If your dad is the boss of the house then your mom probably won't be able to speak her peace on the matter but you can try to go through your mom and maybe she can speak for you. This is a complicated problem if one doesn't know all the facts. Good luck and I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-05-17 10:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by shuggabhugga05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did something wrong, I'd recommend bucking it up and apologizing.
If differences are irreconcilable, I'd start calling some relatives or a few friends and see who will take you in. Just remember, that you are a guest to whomever takes you in and appreciate that fact and be respectful and thankful to them and try to help them out where you can by cleaning, doing chores, etc.
The reason I say to buck it up and apologize first if it was your fault is to avoid creating a possible rift in your family. I've seen many families, including my own where when one member of the family takes in another that has been kicked out the parent holds it against that other family member for not making the kid return home. My aunt held a grudge against my grandma for years because my grandma took my cousin in. All my grandma was trying to do was to make sure my cousin had a place to stay. If you aren't careful your actions could split your family in two.
2007-05-17 10:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by devilishblueyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well First, take some ownership for at least part of the problem and be willing to accept that. You perhaps need to start some chat with dad and see what cadn be done to fix the problem between you too.
We cant fix it for you!
You are too young to be out on your own and dad needs to realize this also.
you dont tell us the problem for the eviction, but think about it and what caused it and then start talking. Not speaking to him will get you no where. Can you stay with a relative until this heals?
2007-05-17 10:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by speedchaser38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a crisis center and ask what you should do. Why did he kick you out? If it was your fault, apologize to him and ask to come back home. Go to the Salvation Army if he won't let you back in. You are too young to be kicked out--social services will help you! Pray a lot! If your Dad is abusive, then you should go to social services--they will find you a place to live.
2007-05-17 10:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Deborah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to your dad. Maybe both of your emotions were just running wild and got out of control.
If that doesn't work out, then try talking to a counselor or one of the many help hotlines.
Good luck whatever you decide.
2007-05-17 10:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by spirited_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad that you are sorry that you fighted with him or go to one of your friends and ask him or her if you can stay with he/her for a some days that when you have money you can repay him/her then you can go to your house and see if your dad is stile mad and try to apology's.
2007-05-17 10:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by orosco15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still in school? If so you are entitled to student welfare and they should be able to help you with getting accommodations. Good luck
2007-05-17 10:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kathleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have any other family memembers then call them and tell them what happend and they might take you too live with them!!!
2007-05-17 10:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did he feel the need to kick you out???????
2007-05-17 10:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋