i been with my boyfriend for 3 years and last week he told me that he doesn't love me anymore and he wants break up. I really hert i just don't want end our relationship because i love him. He been very mean to me. He doesn't want talk to me or see me.
2007-05-17 00:54:37 · 12 answers · asked by Ekaterina I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can understand you would be so so so so hurt by this but if this is what he wants then you deserve to know why he wants to do this and why he says he doesn't love you anymore and then if he does or doesn't give you a good enough answer then you should leave him and he will come crawling back and this will be painful for you but you don't want to be stuck in a dead end relationship where you are giving love but not recieveing it because its not fair on you and you deserve so much more and can do so much better! PUT YOURSELF FIRST there will be pain but you will love again! trust me!!
GOOD LUCK and i hope this helps!~
2007-05-17 00:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone stay with you who doesn't want to be there. So take all you've learned from the last 3 years and go on to the next relationship. The sooner you start dating and having fun to take your mind off this breakup, the better!
2007-05-17 01:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts like hell right now but time heals all and the pain will go. From what you say he wants nothing to do with you so it makes no sense you beg. It's difficult but you need to move on. It's pointless pining away for a person who doesn't appreciate you.
2007-05-17 01:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to love you, if he did even stay it would just be putting off the inevitable. It will hurt but try and move on.
2007-05-17 00:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you. I am a guy knowing them more. Guys hate the ladies which follow them. Just spend your love for some one who worth it. Forget about him and find a right guy.
2007-05-17 01:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by A Sh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better than that.I would reccomend doing something really nice for yourself. When you are ready to date, see someone new.Its hard but you dont deserve someone that is going to be mean to you.
2007-05-17 00:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by honeybc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey drop him! Hes not worth your time and heartache. Soon you will find someone that really truely cares for you.
2007-05-17 00:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by taylorvillegirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if that's how he feels, then get his *** out, no one there is holding a gun to his head and forcing him to stay.
2007-05-17 01:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to start moving on
he doesnt want to be with you, and i know thats hard, but you have no choice....
sorry
2007-05-17 00:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" Get a grip " , move on , you have Lott's to offer to the right guy and obviously he isn't the one...
2007-05-17 00:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋