I believe if "love" was mostly allocated to God , there would be no pain but comfort & relief
2007-05-16 20:48:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
well, this is not my case, but general
almost every lover suffers and complains from their partners
2007-05-16 21:32:31 · update #1
Hello......Think about this
In your love life is it like your love for God?
Do you spend time with God like you do the person in your love life?
Do you talk to God like you talk to the person in your love life?
If it's no so for then your are not suffering, God is just showing you how (you) treat him through your love life partner.
God saids nothing comes befor him........No one either
1 God
2 Spouse
3 Kids
4 Everyting else
2007-05-16 21:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that if u get nothing from the people u love but suffering, then there should be something wrong(i mean if this is ur case).
life is what it is there should be pain with different kind,u suffer from the people u love or cz u care for someone that`s life u have to accept it the way it is.
but also love should mostly give u happiness and peace of mind, Jesus words to us were to love one another as he loved us.
i`m in love with my husband now for 10 years we are married now for 3 years and been in love before this for 7 years.
we had moments that we caused pain to each other, but like i said before, if pain or suffering was the only result of this relation it will never last.
and also u can`t love god unless u love people around u,that`s how u complete ur love by loving everybody.
Loving god will teach u to love others, love that never asks why.
Good Luck in ur life & God Bless
2007-05-17 04:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by Gery 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We cant expect God to do everything for us. Life is what you make it, things will only get to you if you let them. Stop sitting back and waiting for something to come to you, grab life while you have it and enjoy life to the full. We are only on this earth for a short time so dont waste a day. Live, Love and be happy. My God is a loving God. But things happen sometimes that we dont understand. It doesnt matter, he will always be there. Dont dwell on the pain and sadness in life. Be happy cause life is what YOU make it.
2007-05-17 03:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love and God are both different things. Those who believe blindly in God mix the feelings of spirituality and love but they do so because if their love fails they have someone to put the blame upon. Love is different from any other feeling in the world and the suffering in love is the actual beauty of love
2007-05-17 03:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not suffer from love, i am a champion of love.
Gods Agape and unconditional love for man is precious.
I am so sorry that you feel this way.
Love is beautiful, soul stirring, earth shaking emotional food. It does hurt, but it heals.
Just think if there were no good feelings/emotions, the terrible ones would drive us to an early grave.
Blessings
2007-05-17 03:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The pain of love is the return... it is like breathing and inhaling the carbon dioxide. Love is to be given, not taken. Ok, I didn't say that well. Breath the oxygen that the plants give you, not the breath from your own lungs or any other creature's lungs. Love comes to you by its own means... and you give it back to the plants by a various of means. This is much the same of love. I still see faults in my answer, but I am full of them, so.
2007-05-17 03:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by Invisible_Flags 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Positive is always paired with negative. God is love; yes, but He can't always give you comfort and relief. We need pain in order to grow stronger in faith.
2007-05-17 04:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by hellofriend! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on where the pain is coming from.
Some pain only can be comforted by acceptance and over time even if you do love God.
This is just my opinion. It is not an educated answer.
2007-05-17 04:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So I guess without any love left over for any of us Mortals down here on earth - there would be no marriage, no children, and eventually nobody left alive to give their love to the almighty...
2007-05-17 04:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Ummmm, why don't you ask all those people in the Bible-Belt how they didn't suffer or feel any pain when those tornadoes destroyed everything they owned?!
2007-05-17 03:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by zowar1363 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋