Ok I am 20 yrs old. I have always enjoyed sex, I am still attracted to my fiancee, I dont know what my problem is! I just haven't been interested in sex for the past month and a half.
2007-05-16 20:07:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to look at some outside factors in your life, and stress could be a big part of it. Have you undergone any stressful things lately? Or possibly, you could just need a break from sexual activity for a while. Depression is also a common disorder among people our age (I am 20 and have depression), and a sudden decrease in motivation for sexual activity, accompanied by sadness or mood swings could indicate signs of depression. If you do feel like you might be going through depression, do not hide it, and talk with someone about it. Also, you may just be going through a phase where that isn't what you want right now. Honestly, there are many things that may be making you feel this way, and if it continues, you may want to talk to your fiancee about it, and let him know that it is not him that is the problem, rather, it is just a phase you are going through. If the phase persists over a lengthy period of time and you still cannot formulate a solution, it may be time to talk to a psychiatrist.
2007-05-16 20:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by sirantihero 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you on birth control? A few months after I started on the pill, my sex drive took a steep dive.
I am still on the pill now and I feel that still impacts my sex drive, though not as much as before.
Other than that, I'm not too sure. I'm kinda in the same situation right now and trying to figure out just what's going on.
2007-05-17 03:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by JenniFire 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say if you don't elaborate what else is going on. Usually lack of sexual interest is stress-related, having little to do with your partner (assuming you were attracted before to them). Conquer the stress and the sex will come back.
2007-05-17 03:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by geoseo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to all of us. Im 25 and havent really been interested in sex with my wife for almost 6 months :/
2007-05-17 03:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Metamorphosis1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anything is wrong. All the women I know are celibate. Besides, women aren't supposed to enjoy sex anyway. If the man really loves you, he will wait until the two of you are ready for a child, then unload on you.
2007-05-17 03:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by DAVID C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey don't worry about it, it happens all the time. There are periods of time when sex just doesnt appeal. It has happened to me numerous times. Just give it time, and when the right moment comes, you will be hotter than ever.
2007-05-17 03:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by PlayaX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stress it happens to everyone im the same age also engaged and know exactly how you feel sometimes im just not in the mood and yes maybe for a month is totally natural
2007-05-17 03:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different people have different sexual appetites. However, in my experience, if you used to like sex and you used to be into him physically but now you are not, something has changed. If you search your feelings you may find there is something either about you (your self image, how sexy you feel) or how you feel about him (something he has done or failed to do, or perhaps how he is taking care of himself) that has turned you off.
2007-05-17 03:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by Stephen B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it good? If it's not good then that could be a problem. If it's great and your still not interested then see a doctor and explain to your boyfriend what is happening with you.
2007-05-17 03:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by jnnfchar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try different romantic location, different pose - as said same food for long time is tasteless!!! so for a change try another bf - sure u will enjoy more
2007-05-17 03:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by yeskay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋