For the next three months for work. I cant help myself feeling a little jealous/worried. I know he would never cheat on me. but i still worry. I trust him and i love him.
But i start thinking what could happen and my mind goes wild.
How can i get over this jealous and worry???
2007-05-16 19:08:26 · 8 answers · asked by Atllas 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG hunny I know exactly how you feel, I live in Melbourne (Australia) and my bf in Brisbane. I worry about exactly the same thing (he isn't moving here for another 6 months!!)... but I guess we just gotta tell ourselves that we have to trust them. If you don't have trust, you got nothing. Just keep yourself busy doing other things as well and try not to worry about it too much, then 3 months will fly past in no time :) Good luck.
2007-05-16 19:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're thinking these things on your b/f, then I'm very sorry to say that you don't trust him 100%, cause if you trust him you never get these thoughts in your mind. The only thing that you should do is to keep your mind busy and never let your thoughts driving you. When your b/f comes back don't ask him questions on this regard because if you do so, he will be feeling very insecure with you and will not feel comfortable as before.
Hope this helps dear and please stop getting jealous and worried.
2007-05-17 02:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just go through it. only you can help yourself to get over it.
Just relax. I've gone through the same thing when I've been on fam vacation and left my g friend behind. I just realize that she could do it, there's nothing I could do about it.
If I can't prove it, then it probably did not happened. I hold on to that. I basically just put my trust in her.
I do check out the others while I have the chance. I don't instigate any kind of romance, but I do enjoy looking and smiling. It makes me forget about my fears and feel better about myself. Its a little self-esteem boost. Which I will need if I realize I have been cheated on.
It helps me understand that I could do what I fear she's doing behind my back, but I'm not, and she's probably not either.
2007-05-17 02:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth is, anything can happen. He may be a little worried about leaving you back home as well. Faith is trusting what you don't know for sure, this is your test of faith. Those worries will pop up but you have to remind yourself what you wrote here. Don't let those worries consume you, and when they come into your head remind yourself what you already know. He loves you too.
2007-05-17 02:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by mrs. lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just natural. Forget about him for sometime. Do something interesting or get busy with work.
Don't worry he wont cheat on you.
PS: Hey darling I will be back in 3 months, y do u post your doubts here.. you could have called me up :) LOL
2007-05-17 02:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nick Curren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three months is not too long honey, just relax. My boyfriend and I are together for three years now and he's in a different country. Although there's no guarantee in any relationship, both partners should exert extra effort in keeping the flame alive. You can give surprises too even if you're both miles away you know. ;)
2007-05-17 02:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by mars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U will always feel like that until u c him again
2007-05-17 02:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck
2007-05-17 02:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by 29LICKS & MR.29LICKS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋