I just asekd a questions and you've all been so helpful but I feel like I can't lose him. I feel like I can't break up with him so I just don't know. I don't know how to end thisk, I don't know if I want to end this I love him so so much but I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't know how to make myself step back and say, okay, you guys said you were going to work through this that we weren't going to talk about the past and things are going to be different now. But I am haunted by this I cant deal with it but I cant leave him. How am I so confused?!?
2007-05-16 18:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by dreamangel_141414 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know
2007-05-16 18:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by samantha g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl it sounds too familiar u make sure u keep the upper hand u keep him guessin until u get a ring or a REAL committment cuz u'll kno the difference...like dntlet him no wat u think about every lil thing if u feel like he's too far from ur grasp keep yo conversations short n sweet(baby, i love, u, miss u) nomo than 2-3 mins daily but when he say somthin bout it argue him down dat its nothin u been busy (guys dntlike not knowin)real short and dnt call him back no matter how much it hurts not too..take yo phone apart if u have too..keep him guessin..n make sure u look cute let him no u fine n he's not the only one that see it!!
2007-05-16 18:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by mia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say.. do what your heart tells you.
The urge to stay might be strong because we all want that comfort instead of going through the hassle of dating and courtship and whatnot all over again.
But you got to think of the long-term. Do you see yourself with this same guy 10-years from now? 5-years? 3-years?
Like they always say, there are plenty of fish in the ocean. So, do what's right. Good luck :)
2007-05-16 18:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by crufixtionboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how alcoholics have sponsors? A person they can call when they want a drink but know they shouldn't? You need a boyfriend sponsor...you need to find a friend who knows your situation and would be willing to help you find strength when you feel weak. Someone after you break up with him you can call when you want to call him, someone you can hang out with when you want to hang out with him...get the picture?
Just fora fewweeks, till you get over the worst part of timeduring breaking up...
2007-05-16 18:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok nicely what style of guy is he? is he the caught up conventional guy that may not communicate exterior of his team. or his he the incredible conventional guy that gets alongside with all people. and treats them with recognize? if he's between the individuals who're prepared to speak to every physique then merely kinda be your self. i understand that it would be complicated to discover techniques to attitude him, so in case you bypass him in the halls or something. merely supply an uncomplicated hi, and spot if he replys or not. if he replies and looks incredible approximately it then merely shop going with small communicate for here few days. sometime you will substitute into greater tender with speaking to him. and im particular he will ask you techniques you have been simply by fact which you moved back. issues will bypass super in case you basically communicate and be your self. dont attempt and alter your self for him, he will such as you for who you're. desire this helps
2016-11-23 19:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by genna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change is a big step. its not easy and you both have to work together at it. to know if you want to be with him step back and look at the big picture. whats the first thing you think of when he comes to mind? do you love him so much that your willing to put up with his crap just to be with him? do you feel he will ever change. you just have to put everything on a scale...
2007-05-16 18:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are quite the drama queen you are going to drive him away i can tell you must be young, very young. If you would like to chat about it I could give you some real serious pointers i think you need to do something because he will be leaving you soon.
2007-05-16 18:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then tell him but if you really think you need to leave then leave. Can you handle being with him? Do you think you will be happy?
2007-05-16 18:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see this is why you need to break it off. you need to step back and think..without him in the picture. just take a break from eachother, honestly. tell him you need some space.
2007-05-16 18:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by girlygirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the problem was in the first place so I don't understand however, you have my love and support!
2007-05-16 18:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by jnnfchar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know either, you confused me, kidding. If you don't want to leave him then you must choose to believe him.
2007-05-16 18:42:58 · answer #11 · answered by lil sis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋