Is it ever ok to continue to be intimate with your ex? or will it just eventually lead to heartbreak?
Why do somepeople do it?
2007-05-16 17:12:14 · 34 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One night of "goodbye sex" is totally acceptable and is usually among the best sex you'll have with that person. But only if you BOTH recognize that its goodbye sex and you'll never be having sex again. If you're not mature enough to handle that concept, you should definitely not have sex with your ex because it'll lead to alot of emotional pain for at least one of you.
And booty calls with your ex are totally acceptable after like, a year. It's better if you're both still single at the time... but you don't have to be. :)
2007-05-16 17:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Blake 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO that is not okay...That will only lead to heartbreak..the sluts are usually the people that do that..the only reason that you should ever do that is if you know or have a strong feeling that yall are going to get back together..havin sex just to have it is not good at all and will cause any problems not with just you but with everyone around you and any other guy that might come along while u are doing this. Dont have sex with your ex..that is not smart. That will leave to many emotional ties b/w yall.
2007-05-16 17:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the ex stays an ex even with sex, there is no choice but for a heartbreak to happen. You can do it if you are okay with friends with benefits, but in most cases that will not be the case. Some people do it because it's better than no sex and/or they are secretly hoping to get back together.
2007-05-16 17:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by wizball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is, it can feel SO GOOD, but in my experience it never leads to anything but heartbreak.
People do it because it is convenient to hook up with someone you know and have feelings for and you don;t want to totally let go of no matter what the previous baggage is rather then have to work on a new relationship.
Plus what if the ex is HOT? :)
problem is, you guys probably broke up for a reason and will again after you get over your orgasms.
2007-05-16 17:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by richard c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heartbreak Heart break.................. otherwise, why would he be your ex??? think about it, if you two couldnt work of your problems whilst together, they wont improve any with a "sex with my ex" relationship either... its hard to part, mostly because, you are probably comfortable with him, dump him dont sex the ex and move on.... cause if you keep sleeping with him, as soon as you find out he's slept with someone else, you gonna go ballistic, and you have no right........................ cause he's your ex............... and that will just start a bunch of drama!!!! which we all SAY we try to avoid
2007-05-16 17:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Lupita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if you still like your ex your still willing to have sex with him. i think that it will eventually hurt you because you probably do have feelings for him. however if you just wanna have a good time and know it wont lead to a relationship that could inturn cause heartbreak , sure have sex with him. just be safe!
2007-05-16 17:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Sex with the ex is just sex and nothing more. You're not tied to a relationship as you already know it won't work out. You're own morals determine if that's okay or not. If either of you are involved with someone else, I'd certainly say not.
2007-05-16 17:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Zeltar 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The ex is an ex for a reason and who would want to have sex with an ex when you know one of you could care less about the other?
2007-05-16 17:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends on the individual. if you are into a serious relationship its crap, but if your not.. i guess its ok... at the moment i dont have a girl friend but some time back i used to be very intimate with my x. the only difference was that i had broken up with her and my then girl didnt know about all this. c'mon, i couldnt help it... she was oh soooo good at it and to make things worse she used to wear sexy laungerie.
love,
nel...
2007-05-16 17:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by warren n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might lead to more heartbreak...depends on how much you expect from the relationship and if being intimate is going to make you feel vulnerable..you've got to evaluate the relationship and your motives and vulnerabilities in this matter
2007-05-16 17:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋