I understand that sex is something that should be cherished and treasured until you find the person you love, and are married. However, many people find love to be a difficult subject, and hormones can get in the way.
Opinion?
What age?
etc.
2007-05-16 14:51:43 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you should have sex when you and ONLY you are ready. I don't think age really matters as long as you and the other person are mature enough to have sex. I don't think that two people have to be married to have sex. If you do choose to have sex before you are married I would advise you to use PROTECTION! If you don't use protection then you could end up with a baby you're not ready for, an STD, or even worse AIDS.
2007-05-16 15:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Catrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be forced into sex. If you are being pressured (if you love me, you will have sex with me), then it isnt right.
Hormones, so you are talking about adolescents boys...yes, hormones work in different ways btw men and women.
At that age, guys are in it for the "Deed". It is also very much "easier" for them, it is just simple mechanics (vs women where it is a whee bit more complicated), so they have a lot more fun than adolescent girls in that respect (especially if they have no clue what they are doing). Sure, with age, feelings get involved.
I personally think that adolescence is a time to explore, but with safe boundaries. It is all too often that girls get hurt (feeling used or pregnant or STDs) at that period of time.
Take your time. When you feel comfortable, and you are in a steady and trusting relationship (not necessarily married), and the 2 of you feel it is the right time, then it will happen. If you feel scared, then dont do it.
2007-05-16 15:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Skyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age tends to be a number some of the time, though i would recommend waiting till your legal at least. The theroy behind that is by that age you have enough life experience to realise what sex really is, and what it can do to you.
Leaving aside the obvious (pregnency, std's etc) you have to take into the equasion the general addictivness of sex. Its like a drug and can lead you astray if your not careful (ie staying with an ******** cause he is good in the sack).
Just exercise some caution, it could well be the best sensaion in the world that doesnt mean it cant work against ya :)
2007-05-16 15:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think it matters about age. Just have sex when you are married and you want have to go thruogh that "OMG IM PREGNANT WITH A GUY WHO LEFT ME" situation. Wait till ur married. Cuz people can get maried when they're like 14 wih parental approval. I hope this helped your question. Please rate my answer
2007-05-16 15:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be mature is the best bet.
WAIT! for marriage.
Remember there are more single mothers today because the father left for another women.
Don't do it!
Sex or love making is a beautiful thing, don't waste on someone who will not respect you later.
Note: STD's/Herpes/VD/Aids=DEATH!!!
2007-05-16 14:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Leather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex when you are already married. So have sex with your spouse and of course only your spouse. Because having sex before marriage will hurt you emotionally and psychologically.
2007-05-16 15:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a nice thought but 30 years from now it'll be totally different just try to keep that idea
2007-05-16 14:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never cheat on your partner.. everything else is fine...
cheating causes lots of pain!
2007-05-16 14:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by Is it ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋