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There's this guy at my local neighborhood store that works as a cashier and he is HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT.
haha enough T's there to get my point across?

I'm shy, but, how do I take the time to talk to him when we only have a few sec's maybe 2x a week when I go grocery shopping? It's not like I can buy out the whole store so that he'll take longer scanning and start talking to me!! What's a great conversation hook? Something that will get him interested (no pick up lines please or anything that you wouldn't do in real life!!)

Thanks!! :)

2007-05-16 14:21:49 · 14 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

There's a lot of things that come into play here honey, and I don't want you to make a fool out of yourself. He could already have a girlfriend and if he does, you'd come off as foolish no matter what. So here's what I suggest. Jokingly start a conversation. Since you go into the store at least twice a week, the next time you are at the register, say, don't look now, but the old lady is checking you out. He's gonna laugh and remember you the next time you come in. Then on the next time, say "so did you hook up with grandma?". Each time, make small talk. Before you know it, the conversation will get easier and easier.

As a bonus, you'll be finding out more about him and will know if it's safe to move onto a new level of flirtation...or simply move on.

2007-05-16 14:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 2 0

5! = 5 x 4 x 3 x 2 x 1 = 120

2016-05-20 15:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Put down your number on your receipt and slide it over. It'll get to the point and he'll understand immediately. But if he ignores it or just gives you a weird look, walk out of that store as fast as you can and avoid it as much as possible. If he smiles and shakes his head, be friends with him and keep going to that store. If he smiles and takes the number, there you go.

I'd do it if I liked a cashier and I was their age. Good luck!

2007-05-16 14:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why not wait until business slacks off and there is no one to line up behind you.

Then just strike up a conversation ans ask if he'd like to join you for coffee or a drink after work.

Worst that can happen is you find out he's married or gay.

Doc

2007-05-16 14:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0 0

Just calm down and take a deep breath and say a little catchy fraise like i love your shirt/pants, do i know u from somewhere, or break something on purpose and say oh i'm sorry and start a conversation.

2007-05-16 14:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You could say something like "You look really familiar... i mean from somewhere other than here.. where did/do you go to school?" Even if this isn't true and you've never seen him in your life its ok to lie a little and it'll get you guys talking.

If you guys are already sort of aquaintances then you could just say something like "Hey are you watching/going to the game this weekend?" or something like that.

If you want to be really straighforward then you could just straight up flirt with him!! Smile, make a lot of eye contact, and when you go to pay slip a piece of paper with you number on it in amoung the bills!

2007-05-16 14:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Find something on him that makes him him.

in example,

maybe he has a shirt underneath of a band.

talk about that.

guys love it when they dont talk about themselves.

and dont make it obvious.
just be yourself.

dont go to the store twice a week.

b/c he probably gets the picture that u like him.

its like you in a store & u notice that same guy keep going to the store.

pick me!! :D

2007-05-16 14:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by nonoame :] 2 · 0 1

You can start ur conversation with a question .. and then ask 4 his opinion bout anything .. agree with him .. and show him that u r interested .. and if he carries on .. then ull get ur chance ;)

2007-05-16 14:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Dani 3 · 0 0

Tell him something unusual about yourself or your past. Something that will make him laugh. This puts him at ease and makes him feel better about you. It proves you are funny and unique. Then just slip him your number

2007-05-16 14:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by mandypants2006 2 · 0 0

just start off by saying hi and then say something like so whers your girlfriend and if he doesnt have onekeep the conversation moving.

2007-05-16 14:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by Jasmine W 1 · 0 0

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