Im afraid my bf is going suicidal. he keeps cutting himself and each time it gets worse and worse. today he told me he was thinking of cutting himself across his chest with a saw. he was never like this until i met this guy and gave him my number, just as friends. now my bfs paranoid of losing me to the other guy and keeps hurting himself. someone plz help me. I'm afraid hes gonna go to far one day. i need advise :`(
2007-05-16 14:11:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing you could do is tell his parents
2007-05-16 14:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by Pretti iiN Piink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First... you need to get your bf some help. Suggest counseling or a crisis center (when someone is suicidal most crisis centers will evaluate a person 24 hours a day - many are county run mental health centers). Also, let others in his family know what is going on with him. The more people you gather together, the more support you and your bf will have. Then you need to decide if this is someone you really want to be with. If you are giving another guy your number (even though you say it is as a friend) there is obviously something else you are looking for. Also, if an individual is so distraut over this - your best answer is to probably go find someone else.
2007-05-16 14:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by quiltergirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seriously think he may do great harm to himself, you have a moral duty to tell someone who can help. That may be his parents, a teacher, a police officer, social worker, or a minister if you are a believer. But tell someone, and do it now. It's scary, and he will probably be mad at you. But if you like him enough to be a boyfriend, you must like him enough to potentially save his life. And in the long run, he'll be happy you did.
And if that isn't enough, think of this: Suppose you didn't tell anyone, and tomorrow at school, you find out that he did kill himself. How would you feel then, knowing that you could have stopped this with just a phone call?
Call his parents now.
2007-05-16 14:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to his parents to let them know what's going on.
Second; Jealousy suicidal usually never die alone; if he is jealous he might try to kill you at the same time.
Remember that guy a few month ago that locked his girl and himself inside an elevator then set fire to a gallon of gasoline; people could hear her scream for her life; very sad.
He is unstable he need to be forced into a mental institution, before he can kill himself or others.
2007-05-16 14:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell someone else who can help, fast---a parent, mutual friend, pastor, teacher etc. The more people you have concerned for him the better. It sounds like he will need professional help before he ends up killing himself.
Yes, he'll be mad at you for telling someone. But would you rather have him mad at you, or dead?
It's scary when you have to think that way, but you should.
2007-05-16 14:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by anon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is one of those things you have to talk to a close adult about. I know so after school special, but that's what you need to do. Pick a parent, teacher, older sibling, relative, but you have to face to face tell someone.
2007-05-16 14:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's prob. really mad at himself or you. Just set him strait and tell him he's just your long, lost, friend. ^^
If he's going to kill himself then it's his problem. Not yours.
If your really scared, talk to his parents. Maybe they can help.
Hope this helps! ^.~
2007-05-16 14:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone, perhaps a friend of his or his parents...
2007-05-16 14:15:01 · answer #8 · answered by RavenBlack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋