EVIDENCE and facts, that to get a girl, you ONLY need to have self-confidence (dat looks don't matter)?

Question

i just want u to help me change my mind and make me believe that the only thing u need to get girls is SELF-CONFIDENCE, dat looks don't matter at all. Thanks =) haha!

Answer 1

Money is all you need for women. They are all shallow superficial creatures, hence they can multitask. Which means they cannot really do anything well, just able to skim over the top.

Answer 2

Dude you are the man, girls aren't everything in life, get yourself do some workout so you get a better look, get a passion like playing soccer, guitar, anything you like to do and do it for yourself, why? because are having fun doing it, when you achieve something like winning a tournament, learning to play a new song, etc.. etc... you will be gaining confidence in yourself and girls will notice it. As a dude said, have a open body language, be funny, be a gentleman (I don't mean to be the nice guy who carries all the books), but open doors, move sits in when the girl is going to sit, say hi, smile, etc.. etc..

And yes I've seen fat/ugly/small/nerd/geek/whatever stereotype you can think of getting hot and beautiful women.

For men, looks play an important roll when we first meet a girl, in woman too but not thaaaat important as us, they react most likely to feelings and thats what you gotta do, be confident/funny and you will make a girl have a blast of her time.

If you don't gain confidence by believing in yourself, it is hard for someone else to believe in you.

Answer 3

There have been studies on what attracts 2 people of the opposite sex and really, although we may believe it's looks or money, in actually, it is chemistry. Once you are past the looks, supposedly, people give off a smell and only certain people are attracted to that smell--which makes a couple. Look around at the couples around you--do you honestly think they chose each other for looks, money--if that was the case, nobody would be married. Do a search on the internet, there have been many studies on this theory. p.s. I think smart guys are the best!

Answer 4

Hows this. I dont know you and have no motervation to tell you that everythings going to be ok. To be 100% honest im just doing this for myself. With this in mind think of the players about. If you seen them most of them dont have much to work with. They arnt attractive but they get the girls in.

Fat ugly guys can get girls, Nerds can get girls, forget the steriotypes. Its all in your body language. If you think you cant get girls, your body language will reflect your inner thinking and girls will think you are off the market. But if you go in thinking you can do this, you can score you will find the results will differ signifigantly.

Just get the f@ck over your "im not good enough to get a girlfriend" crap and you will be fine

Answer 5

Truly, that is all there is to it. If you do things that show some intelligence on top of the confidence, and you dress tiddly, you only get better looking! Do not judge yourself because it doesn't matter what you see.

Answer 6

Looks matter big time too and so is self-confidence..You don't need to look like an Adonis,but see to it that you are well groom, your smell, teeth ,hair,body ,clothes and shoes are clean.

Answer 7

Looks matter a little bit. Girls think that boys look cute and stuff like that.

Answer 8

Self-confidence and being funny will win any girls heart

Answer 9

looks do matter but George says you need confidence

Answer 10

Looks do matter, but condifence is nice. I've never dated an ugly woman or man, but hell, we all look the same in the dark.