what are some reasons a man would not want a child with his 2nd wife when he adoors his child from his 1st mar

Answer 1

Maybe he's afraid that the relationship will fail, and he will have another child who's parents are not together.

Answer 2

Maybe just because he's "been there, done that" and ...doesn't really care to go back again.

Or maybe he doesn't feel secure enough in the marriage.

Or possibly can't afford another child, especially if he's being a good daddy and paying child support.

Or maybe he just likes the freedom that having no children provides (assuming his ex-wife has custody of his first child).

Or maybe he doesn't want to bring another innocent child into a world that's so messed up.

Or maybe, even though he loves his first child incredibly, maybe he looks back on it and realizes... he wished he'd done things differently.

His age might make a difference too...

If he's nearing retirement, maybe having another baby would feel like starting over... when all he wants to do is enjoy his retired years...

Or if he's young, maybe he resents the fact that he's another statistic in the making...

I could go on and on... But you probably already know the answer. :)

Happy Days!

Answer 3

Guilt for one ! second he thinks he can't take the chance of
losing even more children from a possible failed second
marriage . Does not want to let his first children think that
he can't love them anymore and thus having replacement
children . This is not a easy 123 thing . There are lots of
emotions at stake here and the big chance for a lot of new
pain all the way around . This has to be accepted by all parties involved . Even possible child counseling may or may
not be needed . In any case , proceed with love and great
patience . Assure your love for one another and remove the
word ( Divorce ) from your vocabulary . May God Bless your
families..., amen

Answer 4

Maybe he has a large inheritance that he needs to hand down to his first and foremost child and does not want to have to divy it up. It could also be that he is much older now and sees that having a child my constrict him, while selfish, still a valid reason. Maybe his child that he so adores is the reason his first marriage began to crumble. While he may not admit it, he may also be very afraid of taking care of another living being....Again. It may just be that he doesn't want anymore children. Children really are a personal preference and just as suprising it is when a woman says she doesn't want children, it is the exact same way for a man.

Answer 5

Fear of another divorce

Feelings that it's unfair to the first child to have another child living with him and getting all his attention

Maybe satisfied with life and the relationship as it is

Feels like he got it right the first time

Or maybe he just doesn't want to go back to the sleepless nights and the diapers...

Answer 6

love may be free sometimes but it can cost a million dollars to raise a child through college. I want my kids to have a chance, not food stamps(etc.)

Answer 7

i been married 4 times and I love all 5 of my kids and i would love to have another with my LAST wife

Answer 8

there could be many reasons
1) not enough finances to support another child
2) is older now and he doesn't want anymore kids
sit down and talk with him and find out his reasons*

Answer 9

I think you can find your answer in your own question.