well it all started when mah gurl yuridia got asked out by diz guy name Jesus and den i met him like a day after rite..... so den mah gurl cristina told mi dat he liked mi n dat he wanted to get to knoe mi more... so i was like no cuz he has a gurl but de he started asking mi for a hug n mi to meet him upstairs to talk to him n he told mi he liked mi n we stayed upstairs talking like for 20 mins! n den every single time he sees mi he tells mi to go wit him n to givr him a hug ! so wat should i do?!?!
tell mah gurl about it or just forget her n dont tell her nothing!?!?
2007-05-16 13:38:32 · 18 answers · asked by baby boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell ya gurl fo sor
2007-05-16 13:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lydster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are already doing things with him. If you knew from the start that he is involved with your "girl", then you shouldn't be hugging him or meeting him upstairs to talk.
But if they are just going out and not actual boyfriend/girlfriends, then it should be okay, I would just let your girl know that he also asked you out. If you keep it a secret, then it's like you're trying to hide something from her and you're not being her friend at all.
If they are boyfriend/girlfriend, then you should stay away from him and let her know. There are a lot more guys out there. Don't ruin your friendship over a guy who can't be true.
2007-05-16 13:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by grrandram 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...i think of that your terrific decision right here is to tutor her,not tell her the style you experience. Spend alot of time along with her,call her,flirt along with her,be there if she desires you etc. IF she responds by applying fending off you or telling you she desires to be pals settle for the actuality that she's not waiting. And if she responds genuinely then consult from her appropriate to the style you experience. showing her in the past you tell her we could her see which you fairly mean what your asserting. stable success
2016-11-04 04:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by dembinski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this the wrong way, but you should worry about learning how to spell and speak English, instead of worrying about some guy and his girlfriend.
2007-05-16 13:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by frenchie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to tell the girl what's going on.. your not a true friend if you don't. I have been in the same situation. It sucks but if you just tell her what's going on she will learn to forgive you if she gets mad.
2007-05-16 13:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur girl. when theres something like that u always need to tell someone. Also tell that scary boi who likes u to stop asking u to hug him. tell him that u don't like him if u didn't already and if u did, tell him again. talk to ur parents unless u don't want to. well thats all my advice.
P.S. it was kinda hard to read ur slang typing.
-Molly aka Lucky-
2007-05-16 13:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell your girl, she won't believe you and she will believe her man. Then you won't have your friend. If you don't tell her, when she finds out she will be pissed. Just tell her. He shouldn't be playing both of you and he's a jerk for putting you in that predicament.
2007-05-16 13:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by Babylesley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely tell her. you wouldn't want to keep a secret like this from a good friends of urs. i think you should either tell your friend that her bf likes you or tell her bf not to like you. you don't want to hurt your friend. tell the guy that he already has a gf and that you aren't gonna hurt your friend. :)
2007-05-16 13:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by here to help(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dame stop sucking me off and learn how to spell
2007-05-16 13:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that your really like him and if she is really your friend she will let you have him
2007-05-16 13:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by doglvr136 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋