help. a friend of mine was with me two weeks ago. he was flirting and seeming interested. he said he doesnt have a social life. I invited him out this friday and he said he already has plans. (as in a date) he recently joined a bootycall website. I think its with a girl from there. I am interested in dating him...should I forget about him, or tell him how I feel?
2007-05-16 13:06:08 · 43 answers · asked by joy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Show up as his booty call date! Won't that be fun.
Really - if he's going after bootycalls, he's not worthy of your time.
2007-05-16 13:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Zeltar 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
honestly, if he joined a bootycall website, then you probably shouldnt be interested. Maybe he just wants you to be his bootycall. If you tell him how you feel, he might feel differently, so i dont think that telling him how you feel could hurt. If he reacts in a way that makes you think he just wants to have sex with you, then you know he just wants another bootycall. but if he reacts with genuine sincerity, then i think you should give him a shot
2007-05-16 13:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety if he really was interested in you and not messing around then he wouldnt have signed up with that website and be blowing off your invitation to go with someone he doesnt know.
You should just forget anything more than friends till he gets himself in order.
You shouldnt hav to be second best to anyone!!
2007-05-16 13:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by MichM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should tell him how you feel. if he is desperate and lonely enough to join a booty call website, he will probably jump at the chance to date someone like you! you need to take him out one night and let him know you are interested. he probably is too shy to take the chance that you might dismiss him ( a booty call website is a sure thing, after all) and he'd probably love for you to make the first move. good luck!
2007-05-16 13:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from what I gathered, he was moderately interested, but not enough to warrant dropping his "date" for friday. More than likely he just wants to have sex (not his M.O., though), and doesn't want to pass up this chance. Ask him about another day, maybe he'll be more willing if nothings going on. You did say he has no social life.
2007-05-16 13:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on!! Do not waste time on him to totally "show interest". He may have a very active social life that he is hiding from you!! Tell him how you feel if you must, but dont put all your bets on just him.
2007-05-16 13:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by somethingoranother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy... tell him how you feel. The worst he could say is no. And that might mean that his thoughts are on "having fun" right now with a booty call person, and if that's not what you want, then you won't be loosing anything! Good Luck!
2007-05-16 13:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by Chiky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only should you tell him how you feel but you should tell him that you don't want to go out with him if he is getting booty calls. The last thing you need is to involved with someone who always has someone else he can call on the side.
2007-05-16 13:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Susan G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could enjoy the services provided bythe bootycall website with him.
2007-05-16 13:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard when you find the person your dating is going out with others. You can tell him how you truly feel and ask him if the two of you still want to go out. If he still goes out with her, there's plenty of other guys and you'll find another one.
2007-05-16 13:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by ///DW-Drummer/// 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋