Why is Marriage so hard ?

Answer 1

Because any thing worth anything must cost much. Compromising is the hardest part but even that is made difficult if only one partner is contributing.

Answer 2

marriage never came with instructions or a guaranteed to last forever. Marriage is a 2-way, you both have to put your 100% if you only put in 50% then where is the other 50% going? You both have to work at it if you really want it to make it. am not sure if you are a christian or not, but even if your not a marriage can make it if you try. Before I became a Christian my marriage was on the rocks so many different times and even after I became a Christan it was, but now I have been married it will be 39 years in July. Marriage is not easy, its not like the fairly tale marriage, everyone has their ups and downs..You need to sit down and try to talk with out screaming and yelling cause that don't get you anywhere, take the time and sit down to talk, admit your faults to each other, admit when your wrong, as well as your wife..Don't blame each other let the past go and don't bring it up no more..Get counseling, if you are a christian get counseling from the preacher or whoever does it at the church. Don't give up to easy, if you 2 really really love each other you can make it work..Good luck

Answer 3

Because it is hard to meld two minds and their respective opinions, especially with the temptations of the world today. And the stress in awful. Money, children, sex, family. It can cause great strain. The only way to make it survive is to never cheat, be honest and promise to work it out no matter what happens since marriage is supposed to be for life.

Answer 4

Your question is applicable only to couple who can't enjoy their togetherness. It does not apply to all. Of course there are sacrifices involve but that is part of a dedication. It becomes hard when you are not fully aware and prepared for a married life. It is more of your outlook to marriage that will give you the impression if it is hard or enjoyable.

Answer 5

If guys rubbed on their wives as much as they rubbed on their cars they wouldn't have the problems they have.

Forgiveness - Love

Quit magnifying negative - matter of fact forgive it - all of it.

This also is the loving part.
Care and help your wife. Many men do not grow up and are selfish little boys.

Commitment - People - men and women do not have good examples to go by.

Every relationship has difficulties married or not. Either you are loving, forgiving, and committed or not! period.

There is a third party involved in a marriage - God. Pray together.

Answer 6

Dude! Your questions!? Way down inside, there is a very happy man who's dying to get out!

Try spelling out what is going on in your marriage/life that makes it so complicated/hard and see if we can help.

Answer 7

Because people are individuals and go into marriage thinking things are going to be a certain way, and are totally shocked when they find out that their mate thought something different.

Accept eachother as individuals and try not to box eachother in. It's hard, because we're used to having 'roles' that we play, but in order for it to work, you have to work together to come to a workable agreement that keeps things balanced. Good luck to you.

Answer 8

It is hard. Want to know something. The best things in my life have been hard. Don't give up, keep fighting whatever battle you are facing, and with the help of a good woman it makes it better.

Answer 9

I can just hear my mother telling me "honey, marriage is work!". I used to call home crying since the first three years were just awful. Things are better now but we still have our issues.... the key is communication. No communication = no marriage.

Answer 10

Marriage it not hard you only need to have more patience because nothing it impossible in God's eyes you need to have a big faith and that will be accomplish good lock