Seriously the worse that could happen is the guy not liking the girl. I been through rejection and I'm sure we all have but it is nothing to fear or at least try out. Remember there are plenty of fish in the sea. I use to be afraid to ask girls out but currently I could ask a girl out and care less if she liked me or not because I know the girl that is made for me is out there. I just think girls and even some guys shouldn't be afraid of this.
2007-05-16 12:39:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women are afraid to be rejected too, but there's a difference between their fear and ours. The difference is: If we don't make a move, we'll probably stay alone for the rest of our lives. If they don't make a move, they might be alone for a short while before some guy who's not too afraid of rejection comes along. They can get away with it a lot easier than we can. That's one big reason why they won't put their egos on the line to ask men out. Good night!
2007-05-16 12:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the reason is that every time you are rejected it all leads back to make a woman self conscience, that she was rejected because of the way she looks and stuff like that. Nobody wants to get hurt and taking a risk and asking someone out could get them hurt. I agree that there is a certain person that is made for you and everyone in the world and the problem is finding them and how are you gonna find them without asking??
2007-05-16 12:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by daisydownsouth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason that girls are afraid to be rejected by a guy, at least this is my opinion, is because it considerably lowers our self-esteem...many of us already have issues with looks and other things, and when a guy rejects us, we start to go through a long list in our mind of what could possibly be so wrong with us that a guy would turn us down? To some girls, it doesn't matter how trivial the reason might be, it just makes us feel horrible, and makes us go and do some rather outrageous things to change ourselves...
I don't speak for all girls on this, this is just what goes through my mind when guys reject me...
2007-05-16 12:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by tx_born_n_bred04 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Girls aren't that afraid, because at this day and age the men do the asking out, girls usually don't. So I think men are way more afraid of rejection than women are. Men get ridiculed by their friends when they get rejected. Women just get consoled by their friends and say stuff like " Oh he was a loser anyways."
2007-05-16 12:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by I ? Colbert 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Same reason guys are afraid of getting rejected by a girl.
2007-05-16 12:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Same reason boys are afraid of being rejected bny girls. Rejection doesn't feel good-- even the romantic kind. Especially if you really care about someone. Rejection hurts. We are geard not to want to hurt because hurting doesn't feel good.
2007-05-16 12:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I do not know about the other girls but I have very low self-esteem and someone rejecting me would send me into a complete meltdown.I know it is something everyone goes through but I would rather the guy ask me than me ask the guy.
2007-05-16 12:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by FAMU GIRL 09 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
some guys r just shy and dont know what to do around girls like i have a fear of being rejected but then i just move on
2016-04-01 05:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not just girls that are afraid of being rejected guys are too. i have never been rejected before since i never asked any one out before. i haven't asked any one out yet not because im scared of rejection im just afraid of the gossip that will probably follow it. like "that quiet weird girl asked out that guy kevin.." or "wow shes only a freshman why would she ask out a jr, shes so stupid" thats exactly what it would sound like. kids at my school are so mean.. and im like socially retarded so small things like that get to me
2007-05-16 12:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
True, but its just like swimming or riding a bike. Once you get over the initial fear its piss easy. It doesnt help if the person in question wasnt baptised in high school and was socially represssed for a couple of years :P
Not mentioning anyone in paticular :)
2007-05-16 12:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋