i have thes friends that don't treat me right one of my friends is a total *****, i can't stand her the other one is just selfish and retarded, i am arabian and i wear a scarf over my head because i am a muslim do you think it's because of who i am and what i believe in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-16 12:36:09 · 26 answers · asked by lover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
they arent your friends if they treat you like crap
i know this muslim girl and she is nice so i wouldnt judge people by that
2007-05-16 12:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by i am me 123 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you know what screw them bitches! If they are your friends then they wouldnt treat you like that. And if they do then tell them something. If they still have a problem with you then you dont need that. Trust me Iv'e had the same things happen to me before. If you dont take care of it now then all it will do is cause more drama in the long run. And drama freaken sucks ***!!! And you know what i think its totally awsome what you beleive in! i have an ariabian uncle and let me tell you ya'll have some pretty cool traditions!!! And some pretty dam good food to! so if your hangin out with people that dont respect you for who you are then dont hang around them. Go with people that are fun and like you for who you really are.
2007-05-16 19:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by brazil_fan_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you remain friends w/ people you don't enjoy being around? Ask yourself these questions: 1) when i spend time w/ these women, do i end up happy or sad/angry? and 2) do they add value, wisdom, and positive encouragement to my life? If the answer is no, then just stop talking to them! Believe me, "breaking up" w/ friends is sometimes very hard to do. I've had to do it myself. Unfortunately, there are some "friends" who are just TOXIC. They do nothing but degrade, criticize, etc. You don't need friends like that! Life if toooo short to keep people in your life who add nothing to it. I would write each of them an email or letter explaining (as kindly as possible) why you want to end the friendship. Then do NOT take any of their calls or emails. When I "broke up" w/ a friend, I sent the email then BLOCKED that person's address from my email account.
2007-05-16 19:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by dreamersg04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think these girls are not your friends. It doesnt sound like that are very nice at all. It could be because you are muslim and because of your belief in the islamic faith, but now in america there are a lot of muslim women so americans should be used to seeing them by now. I think you should try to find some new friends.
2007-05-16 19:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't treat you right; then they shouldn't be classified as friends!! The fact that you are muslim should have nothing to do with it. Friends are supposed to love each other for who they are no matter what religion! If your friends can't except that...drop them! If they treat you bad..it shouldn't be a huge loss anyway!
2007-05-16 20:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. CT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real friends wouldn't make fun of someones beliefs and values. If they don't treat you nicely, then just stop hanging out with them. Find some friends that will respect you and make you comfortable. Maybe you should find some Muslim friends since they have similar values.
2007-05-16 19:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by liviaxdiva 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To call people who don't treat you well "friends" isn't accurate. Friends treat each other well because they like each other and value each other, including the ways that they are different from each other.
I think you could call these people "acquaintances". If they are really intolerant of others' religious beliefs and cultural norms, do you really want them as friends?
I'd look for people who would be worth my time and affection if I were you.
2007-05-16 19:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by LC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That may be the case, but if it is that should be a huge signal that they aren't true friends anyway. A real friend is someone who supports you in what you do and supports what you believe, it shouldn't matter if you wear certain things or are a certain religion.
2007-05-16 20:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by Pacific11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, mean people are going to be mean no matter what, it probably doesn't have anything to do with your race or religion. If they are hateful people, they are going to take it out on someone, and you just happened to be standing the closest. Remember, most of what people say or do has NOTHING to do with you - it has to do with them and their own issues.
Stop being friends with these girls, since they obviously don't value your friendship, and find some nicer people.
2007-05-16 19:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. If they were racist or had a problem with your religion, they probably wouldn't be "friends" with you in the first place (or associate with you at all).
Some people are just not nice people. Keep your self very, very far away from those individuals who make you feel bad about yourself.
You are a great person!
2007-05-16 19:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by rattlesnake1221 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I really doubt being Muslim caused you to hang out with girls you don't value, and i doubt being Muslim made saying the word "retarded" sound cool.
2007-05-16 19:41:39 · answer #11 · answered by Thomas H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋