Depends on the guy.
2007-05-16 12:33:29
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answer #1
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answered by vcanfield 4
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OK, here's the straight up scoop... a sense of humor (she can laugh at herself and not be too serious)... intelligence... warmth and compassion... soulfulness... an engaging conversationalist... interesting to be with... interested in others... not materialistic or primarily into fashion alone... well read... forgiving... like to wrestle and play in mud puddles.... likes Oreo cookies with milk... sensitive... humane... well, you get the picture.
Real men, and I mean REAL MEN OF DEPTH AND SUBSTANCE, like women of substance. In contrast, shallow, self absorbed, immature children/boys go for looks (is she arm candy, is she good in bed, does she have a nice bod) -----you know, the one-dimensional side that requires no effort on the guys part except an erection!
So, if your "picker" is broken, you'll end up with the immature boys: if it works, you'll end up with a real man. Just depends on what you want and what you have to offer. One thing is for sure.... if life was a 100 meter race, looks would take you only 5-10 meters: your personality is what takes you the additional 80 meters (but only if it's a great one).
2007-05-16 12:36:33
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answer #2
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answered by Wisdom??? 5
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Well what guys do find most attractive about a women is that she has a nice personality, not a 2 way person, like acts different infront of him than you do infront of your friends, a sweet caring person and possibly a good shape.
2007-05-16 12:36:34
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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Two things are required.
1. A reasonably good body: doesn't have to be spectacular like a model or an actress, but it does need to be in good trim, tone and health.
2. Honesty and a straightforward manner. Play games with me, and I'll mentally classify you as a game-player. Don't flirt with me until you know me well. Until then, be cordial, friendly, familiar at arm's length. If you have to play a role, the right one is "Princess, and my mom the Queen is watching us from right across the room making sure I mind my manners."
2007-05-16 12:43:33
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answer #4
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answered by blaringhorn 2
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Many things.
But most importantly, their willingness to love, be kind and exhibit compassion.
The physical beauty is nothing without the core. You cannot build a beautiful house on a weak foundation and expect it to endure. Life follows the same universal principles.
2007-05-16 12:38:24
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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Obviously this depends on the type of guy you’re looking for. I'm attracted to intelligence, confidence, and nice girls with an edge. Stay well kept (descent clothes, nice hair style, white teeth, smell good, use lotion, and try to work-out.)
2007-05-16 12:46:54
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answer #6
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answered by JMoney 2
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It's hard to answer. Not all guys are the same. But, of course, many guys are attracted to a women's physique. I'm not only attracted to the body, I'm also attracted to personality. Don't ever change for someone. If they aren't attracted to the real you, they aren't worth it.
2007-05-16 12:34:54
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answer #7
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answered by Jonathan 2
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Typical, non-commiting guy: they look for a nice butt and big breasts. But guys who really want to look for a relationship- they look for a girl that catches their attention-in a good way. A girl with great personality, a great smile, is fun to be with, and one who listens. You have to make the first impression count. You have to show them who you are and yet keep some stuff for them to discover. i don't know, just my opinion.
2007-05-16 12:36:01
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answer #8
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answered by agirluwant2know 2
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I like a woman that smiles at me, asks me questions, gives me honest answers when I ask her questions, instead of just saying I dont know all the time, if she can tell a joke or laugh at one of jokes that is always a plus. And of course you have to like her face and the way she looks at you. Some girls are much better about flirting, and touching you once and awhile with different parts of their body, and I dont mean sexually. How can I explain this just touching someone with your leg, or your foot or your hands or just being near me, can make me want to take a look and see who just touched me, cause the one thing you can only do in someone's presence is to touch them physically. So take advantage of being in the same room with someone. Dont grab or be ridiculously aggressive, but just brush by someone ever so lightly, can be very memorable for a guy.
Also being in good physical shape never hurt anyone's sexiness. Go to the gym, eat healthy. If you want a guy with muscles, then you should also workout and try to keep your body in the best condition. Plus when you have a lower body fat percentage you tend to look younger in your facial features. People never are able to guess my age, because I workout and thankfully god still makes me look like I did when I was younger. Also I give thanks that my mind is much smarter and mature then I was when I was in high school.
Oh finally a good perfume or body spray never hurt anyone either. If you wear the same scent whenever you are with this man, he will remember it, and it will make him think of you when he smells it again in other places. Scent is very powerful way to trigger memories and feelings.
go to a perfume store together, or bath and body works and try smelling things together, if he really likes one of the scents, I would buy it and try to wear it often when you are together...
And the way a woman dances is always memorable for me too. The way she dance alone, and especially the way she dances in my arms for ballroom dancing.
finally a woman who has a strong prayer life, and does service in the church or in the community is a very powerful way to attract me. If he serves in the same ministry as me it will make me know she has similar values to me or believes in the same cause that I believe in. I need a woman of the same faith, I always want to know if my partner shares the same religious beliefs that I do, that is very important to me, in case we have a family and raise kids together.
2007-05-16 12:44:24
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answered by sensei ronald j.f. panlilio 3
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I don't want to sound silly but I really don't mind all that much about looks, I'm a good looking guy but I like whats on the inside.
2007-05-16 12:34:47
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answer #10
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answered by Anonymous
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answered by Anonymous
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