Well i'm young. Like 13 yrs young. I think i'm in luv...WAIT! now before u judge me here me out. i know ur probably thinking right now "oh how cute, the little 13 yr old thinks she loves a guy just cause she giggles around him!" no. i really love him. i convinced my self 4 a couple months that i was over him, but i wuz just lying to myself. i feel connected 2 him. like i'm meant to be with him. he currently is annoyed with me cuz i went a liitle over bored on the whole "obsessed thing". oops. do think he could really be the guy?
2007-05-16 12:15:10 · 9 answers · asked by emmasmiles111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ps. I've loved him for a year now. By "the guy" i don't mean the one i'm oing 2 marry or anything, just have a strong relationship with.
2007-05-16 14:09:33 · update #1
i thought i knew i was in love when i was 14....two years ago... i wasn't. she wasn't. you may be, but its not a usual thing at that age. you have to ask yourself questions. if you are compleatly obsessed with him it's not love. that feeling of connection is not really love i don't think. its the infatuation that makes you feel those things, but infatuations can turn into love. time also plays a huge role. i'd say for the time being it isn't, but eventually it might. you just have to work on it. talk to him. that's the most important part of a relationship. if you can't have a good time with him without making out then some things need to be changed. hope it all works out for you.
2007-05-16 12:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by double you tee ef (the answerer) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh how cute, the little 13 yr old thinks she loves a guy just cause she giggles around him! (hahaha had to be done).
Perhaps, you havent stated how you feel or what you do when your together, all you have done is reeled off a bunch of things you did. You might wanna check if the feeling is mutual before you start writing your wedding vows.
2007-05-16 19:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the whole comment - don't get annoyed and not finish it.
give it time.
you may love him - i don't deny that
but i don't think (and i don;t mean to belittle you in any way) that you can find "the guy" as a teenager. just because people change. it's a known fact. it's safer to wait a little, see what this guy becomes, you know? you don't want to do anything you might regret.
good luck :D
Max
2007-05-16 19:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by maxman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok........if u let a guy go or if he goes on his own, and then he comes back, then it was meant to be and is yours. if he decides 4ever that he doesnt like..........u confused ur feelings about and are sending out the wrong signals. just wait a little b4 u get more obssesed. if u truly madly deeply think he is the one, it is his choice 2 be with u and u cant force him 2 be with or love u
2007-05-16 19:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by ilovesoccer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww how cute... for real i think its cute that you wld call it love instead of a crush... i never thought i was in love an i am just two yrs older than you, but if i ever did think i was in love i think it probably wld be love. but if you do love him or dont love him i cant say for sure... pray to god and ask him to let you kno if it is true love. other than that there is only one way to test if it is true love, true love waits, and if you wait then that means that it is probably true love. i do think that he really cld be the guy btw... GOOD LUCK!
2007-05-16 19:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah! it could happen between you guys if you really feel for him you should atleast try and communicate with him first and go up for the big shot and say your feelings if he doesn't like you then it's okay if you still like him at least he knows how you feel about him and if though he does say yes you should be yourself and calm don't be nervous nevousness isn't good on a date be yourself no need to be nevous!
2007-05-16 19:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by cathytrinh15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah young love.
Alright, before you say (oh crap the old guy is gonna preach!)
I'm only 22.
I know where you're coming from.
But there is no, "Meant to be with them"
Either they like you or they dont.
And you can love more than once.
It hurts like hell for awhile,
but you can.
2007-05-16 19:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by Staff Sergeant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea...i'm 14 and know where you're coming from
2007-05-16 19:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,,, I think so.
2007-05-16 19:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋