i have fallen for 2 guys, sam and dell. (i know a weird name) sam is cute and nice and charming and has a lot of charisma, tho he has said some stuff behind my back. dell is the classic boy next door who will do nothing to hurt me, but i really dont think hes interested in being anymore than just friends. sam is the it cute guy ive fallen for all year, and dell is the guy ive known all my life but i dont know who to choose. dell smiles at me and talks with me and always listens, and sam stares at me and calls me all the time. which one likes me? which one should i choose?
2007-05-16 11:46:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dell because Sam dogged you. talked behind your back
if he is doing this now he will always do it.
Dell respects you....
you cannot trust Sam..
2007-05-16 11:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK this is a close one but i think this sam guy may be just a looser who just would go out to you know do stuff. While Dell may be just being a good friend and not like you in that way. Just remember if you go out with Dell and you breakup things may not be the same, but also when you go for Dell you may not end up with him because he may only see you as a friend. I think if anything you should go for Dell i dont feel as though Sam is what you need in a bf
2007-05-16 11:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sexylova49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've known dell your whole life then he will be the one be there if someting goes wrong with sam. i have a feeling sam will be the one you choose just because he seems more open about liking you then dell does. remember to give dell a chance you wouldn't want to choose sam and have dells feelings hurt.
so i guess don't choose just yet.see what happens
2007-05-16 11:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its always fun to go for the "bad boy" which Sam appears to be. (because he said stuff behind your back, doesn't appear to be sincere) But you want the guy who's going to be true to you, which is what Dell seems like. So I guess my advice is to pick Dell, however I really don't know the guys. The best think I can say is to follow your heart. Good Luck Hun!
2007-05-16 11:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that Dell is the right guy..Sam sounds likes you, but you don;t want to be wth a guy that has talken behind you're back. Dell sounds better because you need a boyfreind to listen to you and always be sweet to you. But since you guys are frends its a little tricky. You need to tell him you like him, but this could jeopardize your frendship. If he doesnt like you back, it might be awkward but make it clear you want to be freinds! Good Luck!! ohh and if Dell desnt work out keep talking to Sam, at least you have options :)
2007-05-16 11:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Juls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if dell truly isn't interested in being any more than friends, and if so, then your decision is easy. if he is interested in being more than friends, he might be the better choice over the long term, even if you're more attracted to sam.
2007-05-16 11:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by id 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sam probably likes u ........ it looks like dell just wants 2 b friends .........
2007-05-16 11:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by kiss_of_a_dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't really ask us to tell you that because if we say our oppion then you might make the wrong choice. This might be hard but in the end your heart will help you make the right choice (hope that doesn't sound to corny ^_^)
2007-05-16 11:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by Noname 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dell...........why go out with a guy who has talked behind your back.........do you really want someone who talks smack about you??
2007-05-16 11:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋