Ladies Please Respond?

Question

Ladies,
When ya want a male to approach to ya, what do u like to hear from them or expect them to say? What is the best way u would like to be approached by a guy who likes you. What are the things that turns u off when a guy talks to ya? What do u do not want to hear from us and what do u want to hear from us when we are trying to talk to u or ask u out. What should guys do to get ur attention to show intrest in u? Thanks
G

Answer 1

i want to hear why you like me and that you want to learn more about me. TURN OFFS- ur hottt. nice ***. calling me chick when first meeting me.

look at me not my body or clothes.. eyes are best. not awkwardly though.. "you are beautiful" dont talk about ex grilfriends or other friends who are girls... sisters are ok. ask her questions and at least look interested

Answer 2

This question is what I wanted to ask, anyway. I want to talk to them, but they're kind a having guards, and ready to say NO. That really sucks. I am tall, fit and speak politely and visually I'm confident about myself. So for personality. But I don't know what to tell them so they open up and befriends each other. I even told the things ladies said above, they say No. I hate myself some times, I can't 'get' it. Why women are ready to say No?? Very bad habit actually..

Answer 3

As long as the guy has a lot of confidence, he can get any girl, but be careful to not come off cocky. I say, being polite and honest is the best thing to do. walk up to her, say you couldn't help but notice her across the room and introduce yourself, maybe crack a joke (definitely NOT a corny one) and if she's still talkin to you and especially if she's laughing at your joke, you can ask her if you could possibly take her out sometime or for her number. and if she's with friends, make sure you introduce and shake hands with ALL of them around, THEN continue to talk to her. i kno my friends and i HATE it when the guy just interupts our time together and just starts yappin his a** off to one of our friends. BE POLITE, it's really not that hard. Pick up lines and jerks or even guys that are too shy are major turn-offs.

Answer 4

i like 4 a dude 2 be honest and opinionated
if a dude likes me i like 4 us 2 talk a lot
a turn off is when guys only talk about themselves,
wen a dude disses other people(especially my buds)
and wen they r really cocky
wen u ask us out u should just be forward and act a lil shy
cuz thats cute...
2 get our attention u shood do litttle things that r real thoughtful
like buy us flowers
help us carry stuff
if we look upset just go over and start talking 2 us....
remember ourbirthdays!
thats always a big plus 4 me

Answer 5

It depends on where we are at. If its a bar/party situation just come up and ask how I am doing. Don't use any cheesy pick up lines because its a real turn off. And it never hurts to add a compliment in there.

Answer 6

a huge turnoff is when guys are talking dirty or cursing a lot, or using bad grammer. it just makes you look stupid, uneducated and ridiculous. don't act like you're asking her out to be cool, or just because you thought she was hot. make her feel like you really want to talk to her or go out with her. she'll like that.

Answer 7

Just be poilite and sweet not trashy thats my biggest turn off
but if your sweet it probably doesn't matter what you say

Answer 8

If he makes me laugh, then thats a good start.

Answer 9

I think that she should hear that she looks beautiful.

Answer 10

Just be your honest, sweet, caring self.