2007-05-16 11:23:48 · 14 answers · asked by chickfaith32 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is much easier to fall for a voice on the line, a sweet letter or on-line because the pressure to perform and expectations are almost non-existent.
You are at a double disadvantage at forming a relationship because you miss verbal and physical cues. You are unable to pick up on facial expressions or see the facts for yourself instead of having him/her feed them too you.
Some people can write beautifully but can't carry on a conversation with a date. Their opinion of themselves may be a great deal different than what other people think of them.
Some people have a great of success meeting people and forming relationship on-line that translate to real life but there are a great many that don't and some that could tell you horror stories about it.
If you choose to meet in person, someone that you met on-line then I would hope that you would do so in a public place with a few friends or family members aware of who you are with and where you are. Have a friend eat at the same place but at a different table or someone willing to check in with you from time to time that would be able to help you get out of a bad situation if needed.
Bottom line is to be cautious and use common sense.
2007-05-16 11:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by demarkation_line 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am against falling in love with an online guy. I have my reasons - and I will possibly get thumbs down for this, as some others have with no reason - and I think of online people as not real. I would never call them "fake" because they exist. But they are not real to me. And so, why fall in love with a not real guy?
2007-05-16 15:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mailman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,not at all.I have been in contact with a man in the USA-I am in London.Since last April-06.
I am NOT a freak,have lived a Krazy/club party lifestyle..
And my Online-SPECIAL Man has taught me so much..We will meeting in the next few weeks.I cant wait ;-) x
2007-05-16 11:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by XchanelleX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my guy online and he's the best thing that's ever happened to me.
I can't imagine my life without him in it so, from my own experience, it's not hard to fall in love with a guy online.
2007-05-16 11:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not really,but you don't want to do that...b/c you NEVER know who or how they are in real life,or rather or not it's a predator wanting to harrass you.Some will be truthful to you on line and others will get your information to find out where you live and harrass you.That and you NEVER know which one`s are a cop,trying to catch predators.You just have to be really careful with on dating. I hope this helps,just be careful hon and good luck.
2007-05-16 11:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by bambi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do u fall in love with someone u dont really know?
2007-05-16 11:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by americangurl_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's an fairly sturdy question! i imagine adult men fall more beneficial sturdy at the same time as they do fall. you're ideal about ladies falling swifter and a lot less demanding...i'm one in all them! adult men have a complicated time expressing their thoughts so i fairly imagine this is them!
2016-10-18 08:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by eth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never fall in love with a guy online..... its kinda scary because you really dont know whos on tha other side of that computer.... maybe i over react bout it but i watch MSNBC and i sy " BETTER SAFE THAN SORRY!!!)
2007-05-16 11:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but don't be in a hurry. Develop the friendship first, with some flirting. It can happen easliy then, if you're friends first that flirt.
2007-05-16 11:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, bc u dont have to deal with first impressions, on how he looks, or how he acts, and I am alot less shy on online then in real life.
2007-05-16 11:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋