I often hear this.?

Question

One of my best friends just unexpectedly lost her mother, although it was a great shock to us all death is a part of life and I except it.
I have never really lost anyone really really close to me to experience it and when you lose your mom, I know it really hits hard.
Well, she often says, " I'd do anything to bring her back."
Do you really mean this?
I mean if she was to just pop up from the dead, wouldn't you sh|t yourself?

I say this because I know if for instance my deceased grandmother was sitting in her chair when I got home, I'm taking off running, ask questions later. Matter fact, the Lord would have to come to me Himself to tell me why he brought her back.

I understand she's grieving but why do people often say that when they lose someone?

I guess the question is, what would you if the person you just lost, miraculously appeared back into your life?

Answer 1

I would not want my aunt to come back cause I done broke most of her dishes and stained up all the good towels with kool-aid

Answer 2

I unexpectedly lost my father on Jan 2nd of this year. If he were to miraculously appear I would never let him go. i would tell him how unbelievably painful his lose was and If I were t lose him again I really just don't think I could face another day. When you lose a love one you will understand the depth of the lose. It is by far the most painful experience of my life. The grief is so profound it is physically painful.

Answer 3

Would they be back in their like like state, or a zombie?

If they were a zombie, I would kill them.

Sometimes, it is best when someone dies. A relative of mine died of cancer, and it truly was for the best. They were suffering way too much.

I think sometimes people get caught too much in their own feelings of death, to think about what the deceased would want. If they died of old age, I'm sure they are happy to be dead.

If it was unexpected, or an accident, of course I would want that person back in my life. The best thing to do, is keep their memory alive. Put together some photo albums, go through old family movies, and remember that each day really is precious and we should cherish the moments we have with our loved ones.

Answer 4

Syria and Egypt are extra tolerant of alternative faiths, exceedingly Egypt the place Jews, Christians and Muslims stay area by applying area in relative unity. Saudi Arabi nevertheless does not enable the different faith than Islam! Iran even has a small jewish inhabitants of around 25,000 jews and Iraq composed of Muslims and a few Christians. it is not a case of 'killing' yet tolerance in small parts that permit those human beings to stay at the same time in relative unity.

Answer 5

I could not say from experience because I have not had that happen yet but it is coming up my grandma and grandpa. but the closed I ever got is my cats and my cat's dog. when I was little I would chace them and shot the water gun at them then when they got old and I got older I changed and wanted there trust so I tried nice and think I got it just in time when they came up to me on there own. that is nothing to losing a mom, dad, or other loved ones but I think it is good to prepare you for something like that. spend as much time with loved ones as you can and try to make life as much as you can for you and others. as my dad said to me "life is like a video game but THERES NO RESET BUTTON only one chance."

o answer your question I think they say it because miss times and really want them back but in that song "one more day" it would just make you want someone more afterwords.

Answer 6

most people say this because they really need that ones comfort throught this time!
infact i would love to see my grand mother and my cuz again! they had the same birthday!
it's been a few years for both of them now!
i would love to walk home and see my grandmother! and my cuz...
I would tell my grandma all the things i did while she was gone and ask her to inlighten me about our family history and to tell me the storyes of our ansestors! when iw as younger i didn't care now that i care i don't have any other way to find out this info other then paying lots of money and researching myself on the interent!
if my cuz where here i would ask him what he wanted to say to me in the hospital and i would let him know that i love him and then we would go shopping and my mom would love him back too!
oh i miss those too!

Answer 7

I think that the only reason you feel this way is because you've never lost anyone close to you. Someone losing their Mom is a HUGE deal. I think you'll just have to experience it to know what it feels like.

Answer 8

Probably get the shock of my life, then I would really start asking questions.

Answer 9

having lost my mother, I would run to her with open arms and not question providence.

Answer 10

that is a great movie....................