Well, my ex and I broke up a little over 2 weeks ago and he won't return my calls. He called me last monday but I missed his call, I guess he got an attitude because he didn't believe I was sleep when he called so he said I was misrepresenting myself. He has obvious trust issues...however he still has keys to my place and my landlord is going to charge me big bucks to change it because they have to get replacement keys as well. I really want to make up with my boyfriend but it's like he's stalling me out or something. If he's gone for good why won't he just give the keys back? What to do I still love him and miss him
2007-05-16 08:59:29 · 19 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it was me, I'd change the locks myself. Go to Lowes or Home Depot and ask someone about how to do it. It's super easy and I believe the directions are on the box. Then, give your landlord a key and let them know that you handled it.
In terms of your relationship, it's turned into games and its time for you to make an exit. You only live once and to have a relationship without trust is really not worth your time. Don't stay with him just because he has keys. And, remember, you don't owe him anything...just call it even and split.
Good luck.
2007-05-16 09:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now he has the upper hand. i would call him just one more time and leave a message saying that if he doesn't give the keys back you are going to have to change the locks and that would be highly inconvenient for you. act like you don't care and he will be hurt and come running back to you to get your attention again, he obviously hasn't gotten over you and is playing stupid games with you, otherwise he would have given the keys back already.
2007-05-16 09:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by adriana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separate the two -- the keys and the relationship.
Ask him to seal the keys in an envelope and give the envelope to a mutual friend. You can ask this through email so he doesn't have to talk to you if he doesn't want to.
As for the relationship, maybe just give it a little time.
2007-05-16 09:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he won't give back keys because he is a big baby as all men are. You still love him because u haven't accepted the fact the it is over. Put the idea of getting back together on the table and see how he feels about it. Also that who jealous thing is kind of psycho.
2007-05-16 09:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by laalaa115 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you nonetheless have emotions to your ex? in case you dont have emotions, dont hardship/sense responsible too lots! he's your ex boyfriend, you're sure to consistently think of a few issues he does are candy. Ive gotta say in spite of the undeniable fact that....... in the journey that your boyfriend nicely-knownshows out i do no longer think of he would be happy! possibly it may be perfect in case you instructed him your self, i think of he'd comprehend greater in case you heard it from you and he could additionally be waiting to help if youre perplexed approximately all of it! :) i desire it seems ok!
2016-12-11 11:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be a fool if he still has the keys and u have kids get a few loans from friends and get the locks changed soon or ull b sorry
2007-05-16 09:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by a7x350z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being friends with him then tell him to come over then ask him for the keys my ex did this to me to and I just made up with him and then he gave me my keys with no hesitation.
2007-05-16 09:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Pretty me :) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like he has some issues, but if you want him back that bad then keep trying to talk to him. There's nothing else to really say about it. Good luck though hope it works out for you....
2007-05-16 09:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love him and want him, what is stopping you from seeing him. Just find him and tell him how you feel. An actually visit should break the ice, most men can't resist a woman's touch. Hug him, kiss him and he is yours again...
2007-05-16 09:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
demand the keys back and move on if hes gonna act like that
2007-05-16 09:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by twiggy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋