Well....... My new boyfriend Kody and I have been together for a week now & I've noticed he's been trying to kiss & touch me it's not rape if I say STOP he will stop! We have known each other since we were 10. So about 3 1/2 years. He's a great guy & treats me so well. Yesterday he told me he wanted to kiss me kiss me kiss me. Not the whole getting pregnant thing! Just kiss get naked thats all!
2007-05-16 08:28:56 · 23 answers · asked by NeeNee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I MENT 4 1/2 YEARS ALMOST 15.
2007-05-16 08:35:09 · update #1
i DON'T WANT sex Im toooo young maybe 20 then its ok!
2007-05-16 08:36:51 · update #2
We've known each other a while but been bf gf a week
2007-05-16 08:38:02 · update #3
so your 13 1/2, I think thats way too young to be getting sexual with someone. Especially after only dating them for a week, I don't care if you've known them your whole life.
2007-05-16 08:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear the phrase " One thing led to another". Kissing and getting naked will most likely lead to something more serious, and once it's begun, there's no going back. You cannot tease a guy doing this, it's dangerous, no matter how long you've known him.
Two very strong people who are truly honest, might be able to get away with doing that- kissing naked, and not having any other sexual activity. I've done it, so I know it's possible. But a weak "no" can sound like submission, and then there are no clothes to prevent intromission. This is not safe.
2007-05-16 08:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my American math is correct, that makes you both like 13 almost 14 years old, right? Wait. Just wait. it is not right. You are way to young, to be considering anything more than holding hands, and maybe a kiss on the cheek. If he can't wait then he isn't the right one. I will tell you something, if you are laying there naked, and are kissing, you WILL have sex. you will do it, don't let him tell you otherwise, tension is to high in those instances and you will regret it.
2007-05-16 08:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kythrol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well kissing you and touching you even if you said no still isn't rape. You really need to look up that word as you don't know what it means.
From what and how you write, you clearly are too young and naive to be doing the things you are. If he wants you to get naked, it's not to just kiss. You are fooling yourself if you think "that's all".
2007-05-16 08:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are questioning it, then its probably too soon. Taking any additional steps should be something that you are 100% comfortable with and will not regret if you break up the next day. think it through fully. Another thought: if you cant talk to him about it comfortably then you guys are not emotionally ready for the step. Try talking about what you feel you are ready for and hold the physical stuff there, when you are ready to move on talk about it first so you are both on the same page about what is ok and what isnt. He will most likely be happier knowing how far to go and wont make you uncomfortable, plus you wont have to feel bad always telling him to stop.
2007-05-16 08:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"We have known each other since we were 10. So about 3 1/2 years."
You're 13 and a half!?!
No sexual stuff at all. Don't. You'll regret it. Kissing is fine, but going too far classes it as rape.
EDIT: oh i just read your edit. 15's still too young.
2007-05-16 08:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ad134 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is problly very sexually active like most boys are im vedry sexually active and im a girl so i understand where he comes from most consider me a W*hore or a S*lut watever but if your not ready just talk to him if he really cares about you he will understand and he will slow down for you if not then hes not worth it. and dont do any thing stupid. if your under the age of 16 then i really understand you cus im only 15 if not then just wait and go to college and just get rid of him and go get a career and your sure to find someone there who will understand where you come from and they will charish you and will slow down for you and will want to do any thing for you to make you happy you could do way better than him .... or even if you are 13 or 14 or even 15 or 16 you still can find that special someone in your life it just takes time i promise it will get better.. 13 and a holf is way to young for sex i no i was 14 when i lost my virginity and still regret it even if i am a W*hore watever dont do any thing stupid ok i should no....
2007-05-16 08:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to what you wrote your around 13-14. Your way too young to be getting naked w/ any boy! Kissing's one thing, but anything past that at your age I'm saying hell no to!!! Why the hell are your parents leaving yall alone together?!
2007-05-16 08:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by missorange 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One week and Kody wants sex. Why else does he want to kiss naked. Keep your jeans on , girl, and zipped up.
2007-05-16 08:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so you two are 13, maybe 14...you two might need be ready for anything too physical. But it is also naive to think that kissing can't lead to anything more. Be honest with him and tell him how you fee, don't be pressured to do anything, even kissing.
2007-05-16 08:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋