ok me and my x (jamie) were dating for 2 months, and well im 15 and he is 21, see we dont care about the age but he cant move out right now because he has no credit, so anyways, his parents threatnend to kick him out so we dicided to let things shill, so we are on a break and he still tells me that he loves me and misses me, what should i do, how should i do it??? HELP????
2007-05-16 08:21:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might not care but the police would. Your boyfriend belongs in jail and you in school. Wake up girl you are being played.
2007-05-16 08:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him alone, and he should be leaving you alone. You might not care about the age difference, but the law certainly does. Your parents could send him to jail -- is that really what you want?
If you truly love one another, chill out the romance for a while and give yourself time to grow into a mature adult, so you can relate to him in that way. Right now, the age and maturity difference give him all the power in the relationship, and that's not healthy.
I mean... "Jaimie's Girl" for your login? That says to me that you're far too under his thumb, and you need to have an identity of your own that doesn't include or depend on him.
2007-05-16 15:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said you two don't care about age but at this point, you should. If you both were adults then yes, age shouldn't be too much of a concern but both of you are not of legal age so that should be considered. It might be a good idea to let him get his self together as far as his financial situation if you both think that spending some time a part for the time being is a good idea.
2007-05-16 15:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry babe but 15 and 21 is a bit much.
maybe at 20 and 26 it will even out, but you should really be focussing more on your studies and growing up... that boy at 21 should have a car, his own place and not be acting like a child, but a man.
a 21 year old is a man?
then how can he be with someone who is not a woman, but a mere girl.
right now you think its flattering and fun and exciting, but in ten years you will look back and see things through new eyes and thing "How could he have done that... whatta dork"
Now if you had a 15 yr old girl would you want her dating or having mushy feelings for 21 year old who is not in college or working or taht ssupports himself?
2007-05-16 15:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Leave him alone. Do you want him to go to jail for rape? Because that's what is going to happen if you to continue to see each other. I mean, damn, at least find out what the legal age of consent is in your state and wait till then to continue seeing each other. What is a 21 year old doing with a 15 year old anyway?? He MUST be a real winner!!!
2007-05-16 15:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by StayPuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, he's 21 with no credit, and I'm assuming no job. Your 15, I'm assuming still in school- if his parents are going to kick him out, what are you going to do with him? Are you going to support him? He sounds like a loser to me. Your 15, worry about school and having fun, not taking care of some guy-- your not his mother
2007-05-16 15:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Ms B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way to young to be with a 21 year old not to mention it is against the law. Do not take anymore phone calls from him or see him. Apparently his parents are smart enough to realize that their son is putting his life on the line for a child and could do jail time
2007-05-16 15:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have fun being 15 and keep him as a friend for a few years - then if he gets some credit, a job and can take care of himself living on his own, then try again if you want to.
2007-05-16 15:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 15. What are you going to do... have him move in your room at your parents? If he gets kicked out of his parents, I'm sure he has friends that can take him in for a little bit...
2007-05-16 15:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by vulgar_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you if your parents found out they would have his *** arrested in a heartbeat. Unless you are at least 17 1/2 to 18, he is too old for you and staying with him could mean that he will be a sex offender for the rest of his life.
2007-05-16 15:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR, girl i think you should leave him if his parents kicked him out its for a good reason and besides hes 22 yrs old you might think hes more mature but reality is they're NOT guys will never be mature find another guy you need to taste diffrent flavors then you'll now !!!
2007-05-16 15:28:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋