im 15, i got to a boarding school pretty far away from home and i finding life really hard atm, i used to cut myself but i havnt in a year. ive been feeling really useless and wortless recently. i dont talk about my feelings well so i dont know what i should do... please help
2007-05-16 05:09:48 · 22 answers · asked by BeCkS_xX 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I am sure your school has counsellors, see one.
2007-05-16 05:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I wanna say if you feel like cutting yourself. All I ask is why and do you wanna be put on medication for the rest of your life court ordered. Youve got some issues you better resolve cause this world is gonna step on you and your not even ready for it yet. Your 15 get a hobby or two . Focus alittle on what would make you a better person. Do stuff for others. Live alittle have fun. Dont do drugs or drink but learn to enjoy these years cause you wont be getting them back when your an adult. Ive been where your at and im 30. Not a day goes by I wish I was 15 or 17 again. I had to grow up in a hurry and face lots of terrible things and survived them and faced all my enemys and won most of my battles. You will face yourself one of these days. The big question is what will you do in the mean time. And if your smart you will not give up on yourself.
2007-05-16 05:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by PushSucharaX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, its definatly understandable that boarding school is hard on ya especially after you feeling down enouph to cut yourself. You should look in the phone book for councilor hotlines, alot of times there are 1800 numbers that do free sessions over the phone. If not, contact your school councilor and tell them. You are too young to deal with these feelings alone, some times it does take another person to help you cope! You arn't alone!!
2007-05-16 05:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by HushYourFuss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always good to talk to some one if you don't have anyone close to you that you think you can listen to how you are feeling then a couple of sessions at a councilor would help you think things through. Remember you are 15 you still have a long way to go before you are grown up. you may feel bad now but it will pass.
2007-05-16 05:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by ron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I just want to help... If you talk to your councilor you can get all the answers your seeking you will feel so much better and you will love life and find why life isn't always so easy.
Remember where all hear for a reason, you just need to find answers, and that's what your councilor is there for.
2007-05-16 05:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by tina n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is useless or worthless so you are wrong about your feelings. Perhaps thru counseling and medication you could right the ship. It's so hard trying to live today in this world. Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
2007-05-16 05:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to talk to someone right now! Dont let lifes little things get you down, and trust me life cant be that hard at 15 it gets better. Your not useless or worthless, you just think so in your head. Maybe you should take some time out and do something completly different that you would never do. Just get out and expirence life for all its greatness. best of luck.
2007-05-16 05:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by matt83840 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can have a complete change of life for the better by being connected with God. God will gladly forgive our sins through Christ if we come to Him with sincerity and repentance. You can live a life with joy, peace, hope and meaning. You can have a new song in your heart because Heaven will be your eternal home. Never, never, miss Heaven for anything in this troublesome world. My best wishes to you for happiness and Heaven! (You can get a free counselling from a pastor in a church.)
2007-05-16 05:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dun wry,,..i have the same problems! if you feel that seeing a councilor will make u feel better and let you talk about your problems more freely..then do it! but if you re still not sure you ll find talking to a trusted friend or calling a family member will make you feel a lot better too.!
p.s. try to concentrate on Ur qualities...NO ONE is completely useless or worthless
2007-05-16 05:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by HahaLariXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide whether or not to be happy. Excel in what makes you happy and you will find others with common interests to make friends with. Just be honest with yourself and those you care about. The answers you seek will come with time.
2007-05-16 05:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do need to seek a counsler, you cutting can be caused by many thing emotional pain and trying to find a way to cope was the reason I use to, I thought the physical pain would take my mind off the emotional but it doesn't work and is extrely harmful.
2007-05-16 05:15:18 · answer #11 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋