my friend she has been dating this guy for 2 months and he asked her if she can have sex with him and she doesnt feeling having it with him........wat she do.......and i want to know why guys ask for sex alll the time why they dont ask about true love or something why sex should be the main thing in life which is not......
2007-05-16 02:32:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After two months he is already asking?? Thats barbaric, he probablly wanted that from the beginning. I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months and we dont do that because we know it would hurt our relationship. let alone because the Bible clearly tells us sex is to be enjoyed my married people. Sexual relations just leads to hurt and dissappointment for most people. A feeling that really stinks. I really want to marry my girlfriend, but not just cuz I would get to have sex... but because I want to be with her forever. lol and yes I'm old enough to think about getting married so its ok.
2007-05-16 02:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by JC08 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to discuss this with your folks. You obviously need the "birds and the bees" talk, and you may want to get your information from somewhere more reliable than here. It is too important. That said, I would tell your friend that if she has sex before she is 100% ready (and mature enough to make a responsible decision on this), she could potentially regret it for the rest of her life. She could easily get pregnant or get a sexually transmitted disease. As far as why guys ask for sex all the time? One day you'll have sex, and then you'll know. Hopefully, if you are smart, that won't happen for a long, long time. Good luck!
2007-05-16 02:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think about guys tend to think about sex more than women do, not to say that ladies don't enjoy it, we tend to get more emotionally attached when it comes to having sex. Guys on the other hand are alot more casual about it, most guys I know at least. But the main thing is to tell your friend if she's not ready to have sex than she really shouldn't. If he really cares about her he wouldn't pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want to, he would respect that she wants to wait. And if he doesn't respect that maybe she should find someone else that can.
2007-05-16 02:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't speak for all guys but sex feels pretty good and it is a way for guy to you know he loves you. Now I'm not talking guys who do the one night stand thing, I am talking about guys who have heart of gold. I was a virgin until 21 but dated many girls. I waited until it felt right.
2007-05-16 02:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jesse B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man's hormone level peeks in his teenage years. And it stays that way until about age 26 or so. In other words, most males have only sex on their minds during this time. (Being one myself, i can readily vouch for this.) Females, however, don't always have the same overpowering drive the males feel, and thus do not respond the same.
2007-05-16 02:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its the main thing in life. now, ppl are soo obsessed with sex that it is getting annoying. when the time is right, do it. but 2 months is like nothing, have some pride.
2007-05-16 02:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sew has nothing to do with usually after you have sex the guy stops caring for you. It has happened so so many of my friend. Your friend should wait till you know she is ready. i cant tell you to wait till your married but if it dosen't feel right then you should defiantly wait.
2007-05-16 02:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by yamsweetpotato22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly she shouldn't want to neway, they have only been dating for 2 months, all he has for her is lust not love
secondly u and ur friend need to find the right dudes to go out with, ones that like just sitting there holding you, talking to you, just looking into ur eyes, and RESPECTS UR DECISIONS...
most guys (i am guessing you're all teenagers) are in the stage of their life where that is all they want to do is have sex, the only reason for that is his hormones are raging
2007-05-16 02:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by Last Of A Dying Breed Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing in my own opinion
2007-05-16 02:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey meme bab's
the best off it is the cigarett after it...
heheheh....
good luck with that problem..!
2007-05-16 02:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by stefansrb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋