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Please Answer my questions...Thank you.

1.) If you never had a bf or gf by the time you were 18, 19, or 20 what did you say to people that asked you how many bf's or gf's you've had in the past? Did you care if anyone made fun of you? And when you did get your first bf or gf what did they say about you not having one before..did they care?

2.) If you were never asked out by a guy all through middle school does that mean you will never get asked out in high school and college?

3.) Is it weird to get your first bf or gf in college and your first date? Do you know anyone that has done that?

Answer 1

duh...what does this have to do with real life?
who cares when you get your first bf? when you find someone you care for that cares for you in return...that is when it seems to happen...it does not matter when in life it happens.

jeese...

Answer 2

I had the same gf since I was 14 thru 18, but a lot of my friends did not have a date through out high school. I thought they were good guys, but they were shy. I told them if anyone asked, just lie about it. It isn't important, and too many high school kids are immature and just make a difficult situation worse by making fun of the kid.

Anybody that is interested in you will not care how many bf/gfs you have had, high or low. And that is the truth.


2. High school can be very similar to middle school. Depending on how much bigger the high school is and how many of the people you already know. It is possible that you will not be asked out in high school, but it is equally possible that you will. Believe it or not, but some guys/girls actually grow up a bit when they hit their teens.

College is a whole different thing. In college there is a full spectrum of people. I can promise you will find more then one person who will be interested in knowing you better.

3. This is totally normal. I had a few friends in college who never had a date until college. Like i said, college is completely different from high school. It will be much easier to find people you really share interests in.

Most importantly: Be who you want to be, do what you want to do. And make sure you have fun along the way.

Answer 3

1) My friends in that situation would say that they haven't found the right person yet. They got teased a little but it was mostly sexual frustration jokes. Once my friend got a boyfriend we knew he was great because she waited for the right one. We teased her a little about having sexual relief and all the things she has to go through being a gf but it was nothing mean.

2) NOT TRUE! I never got asked out in middleschool and once I got into high school I had several different boyfriends. There are more people in high school and you make more friends there too, so you make different connections.

3) Not at all. I know people who have done that. Middle and high schoolers are generally people you grew up with. When you get to college you meet a bunch of different people that share your interests

Answer 4

1. i never had a boyfriend till I was 18...it's a personal preference, why do i care about other people's opinion?
2. it's never true...there's someone called late bloomers. Their appeal to opposite sex doesnt get noticed until they're in college or even in middle 20s.
3. not weird at all!!! And so you know, it's even more exciting to have first date or first bf or gf in college...You can make more choices...more mature guys,even cuter!!!^^

Answer 5

I didn't have, what I considered, I real boyfriend until I was in 11th grade. I didn't get into the whole dating drama in middle school and high school. It just really wasn't my thing. I'm 20 years old now and am in my first serious relationship. I have no problem admitting that to people. They usually tell me I'm lucky to have found the man I'm going to marry(we're engaged) so quickly. Now, my fiance... I'm not sure of his whole dating past. But I know he didn't lose his virginity until he was 21 I think. So everyone is different. If you're asking this because you feel left out because you haven't had a boyfriend yet... don't feel bad. Everyone is different. Plus... who wants to miss out on the best years of your life because you're tied down??? Lol. Good Luck. Feel free to message me if you need more advice.

Answer 6

in high school i had only one boyfriend and we were together for only 5 months and thats all. so i went on high school with pretty much no boyfriend. then when i got into college i met this guy who was great and i told him about my past with guys but he didn't care. my dad was always really strict about guys and so i never got to go out in high school so actually knowing guys was a problem. so my first real date was in college. there's nothing wrong with that cause i know i have plenty of dates to come. it takes time but the right one will come around.

Answer 7

I am nineteen years old and I never had a boyfriend and I still don't have one now. Trust me when I say this: there is nothing wrong with having a boyfriend in college, especially when you never had one. I mean true I was a laughingstock to my peers when they saw that I wasn't like them. However, up to now they have an utmost respect for me, because as much as they try, they can't seem to find anything wrong with me and that sometimes fascinates them. So girl, put your head up high and walk with your man. Its not about what they think but what you and your man can bring in this relationship. If you have a boyfriend then go on girl with your bad self! But if you don't, chill it'll come. I know mine will!!!!

Answer 8

That is a greaaat question. I've only had ONE ONLINE bf and it didn't work. I mean I'm not scared to try things. But everyone asks me how many gf's i've had and I'm like Oh. So I usually say I've had one. Or tell them you're not looking for love yet your relaxing and waiting for the right person to come. Good luck!

Answer 9

1.) sounds kind of sweet. so precious and cute. bf's or gf's will come in time. people who make fun of you shouldnt bother you. why rush what you have all your life to enjoy. it will come in time. if they make fun of you they arent your friend anyway.
2.) No. middle school is kind of young dont you think? why be in a hurry to grow up. concentrate on high school and college. you spend to much time worrying about tomorrow you will forget how to live for today.
3.) No

Answer 10

It doesnt matter date when your ready if someone makes fun of you just reply people like you are the reason i didnt date! And no just because you werent asked out in middle school doesnt mean you wont be asked out later.

Answer 11

1. i'm 17 and never had a bf.
i'm proud to say i don't have one.
some say my first boyfriend would be lucky,
becoz he'll be the first.

2. i don't think so. i was asked out when i'm in 3rd year high school.

3. no. it's not weird. yes, i know many of them. and they are happily married.

well you know, i want my first to be my forever.