do you believe in a second chance?

Question

yes? no?

and why?

i personally believe a person only deserves on if they are willing to make a change for the better.. if they can work towards learning from their mistakes and repenting then i believe they do..

what about love? are second chances there to give .. if a person hurt another, do they deserve a second chance to make amends?

i'd love to know your opinions =)

Answer 1

In my opinion like you said they only deserve one if they are willing to make the change for the better and if they are going to work on their mistakes.it also depends on what they did for example if they cheated then i believe once a cheater always a cheater ofcourse you can still give them a second chance if you want but you are only risking you happiness since the relationship is not going to be the same for a long and there is always going to be that distrust and everytime there is an argument some how it might get brought up and thrown in the persons face could cause alot of problems and eventually the relationship could be broken off.i dont know what that person did to you but that is my opinion.we as humans are not perfect no one is perfect not even animals.and we are all bound to make mistakes.however what i said about the cheating im stilling sticking to it because there is no excuse for cheating.and NO ROBBERS OR RAPIST OR MURDERS SHOULD NOT GET SECOND CHANCE THE PERSON THEY KILLED OR STOLE FROM OR RAPED DIDNT GET A SECOND CHANCE THE PERSON THAT GOT RAPED WILL LIVE WITH THAT TRAUME FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIFE AND POSSIBLY NEVER HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.

Answer 2

Yes, I believe in second chances. Only second chances, not 3 and 4 chances. As long as the person is really sincere and they have learned from previous mistakes, why not. Everyone needs a second chance. Even God gives second chances.

Answer 3

I am so glad you asked this question, because I am in a situation now where I acted like a child and did somethings towards a person I truly care for awhile back...

Just recently I've tried to make amends with him, but due to the past it seems to be a little harder on his part to believe I have change or to give me another chance...As I stated to him, I am not looking to pick up where we left off. I just want to be your friend if nothing else comes of it...But I am willing to do whatever it takes to gain his trust and his friendship again.

Answer 4

Yes I believe in second chances, I was the one in need of one and got it, your absolutely correct, repenting and learning is a must.

Love is very powerful, and I believe that enough of it between 2 people deserves a second chance

Answer 5

I believe in second chances. Especially with love. I mean as the saying goes, do unto others what you would want them to do to you. If you were in the position of that person asking for a second chance, wouldn't you want one? Besides, if after the second chance they mess up then that's it. You draw the line. But if you don't give them a chance to show you how much they've changed, then how do you expect for the relationship to work if you're dying for it to work?

Answer 6

yeah i believe in second chances
and with love i believe in 2nd chances 2 if both people actually do still love each other and are willing to work out what ever problem they had that made them split up in the first place

Answer 7

first time, shame on them,
second time, shame on you.

if you are talking about a cheater, no its not a good thing to give a second chance. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Sometimes relationships need to fix themselves...give it a break for a while and make sure the person really wants to change. You cant change them, they have to want it for themselves

Answer 8

Depends on what you want a second chance at. Murder? I think not! Robbery? Nuh-uh. Rape? Get OUTA here! Cheating? Once a cheat, always a cheat. Lying? Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me! On the other hand, if you louse up building a better mousetrap, yeah, I'll give you a second chance to get it right.

Answer 9

It takes two people to make it work, so if both love each other, then yes, I believe in 2nd chance.

Answer 10

it dpends on the situation if the guy hurt so much or cheat you so dont give him another change coz he is not worth it to have a second change i know you can find the right one for you in the right time just be patient...