Kids games get quite boring sometimes. Just wondering what the average time spent is.
2007-05-16 00:10:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
As the mother to three grown children, and three grandchildren, I think I should tell you to spend every minute you can with your child. They don't stay little long enough. You don't have to spend the all the time doing the games and toys thing.
Incorperate the child in the tasks you do, that way it will not seem so boring to you. Let them help you with the simple tasks. For instance let them help you with dishes, laundry, talking to them as you go along. I unload the dishwasher with my granddaughters (ages 2 and 2 1/2). I give them the silverware section minus the sharp objects and I unload the other things and chatter with them. It is bonding, teaching them a task, and helping with their vocabulary. I also let them help me do laundry. I fold the towels, they fold the bath cloths. They enjoy helping and talking. I even give them a feather duster while I am cleaning house. I know I will have to go behind them later to do the job right..but it gives them a sense of helping. I also praise them for their good work and thank them for all of their help. I recently let my granddaughter help me peel some hard boiled eggs. I showed her how to gently roll the egg on the table to get it started and the first one she did she smashed to smitherenes...lol I just gently told her (after laughing so hard i cried) she had to do it eeeeeeeasy..she did the next few perfectly, and was over joyed at doing it right! I hope this helps you and gives you as much joy as it does me!!
2007-05-16 01:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by mrsjdbrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totaly agree...but, If you were meant to be a parent.....Youd want to spend every second you can! Many would be offended and call that an awful question. You sound a little like me, and i have chosen never to have children because i am selfish and want to do things i want to do, when i want. I dont feel guilty, as many think i should be. I think its mature and responsible. I am confident i am doing the right thing. My mum should have aborted me, (she aborted my older sister behind my dads back,i guess she thought 2 terminations was pushing her luck. She walked out when i was 3 and doesnt give a ****. shes not an alcho or druggie, (my older brother is all of the above due to this trauma) she'd just rather travel and visit art galleries. I had a nanny, a cook and always someone there other than my mum to look after me and do MUMMY things. Dad was always at work trying to keep the roof over our head she was so intent on 'trading for a painting'. Its not that she didnt love us. she just had other more important things to do. Life story aside. Do what you think is right. if its not, someone will surely tell you.. My bf isnt into kids either. but he loves all his mates kids. they love him. they get so excited when he comes over... the funny thing is- he actually talks to them and treats them like adults. kids love that ****. they arent as dumb as we thhink and appreciate it more. i wouldnt be suprised if kids find their games boring too!
2007-05-16 00:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no "average". Spending time with your kids should not be looked at as a chore. If you are bored with the kid games, then find something else to do with your kid. Be thankful that you are able to spend time with the kid. You are the parent -- it is up to you to make it exciting.
2007-05-16 00:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend as much time with your child as you can!!
Too many parents today allow their kids to be babysat by the t.v. , movies and video games then wonder why their child wants nothing to do with them later in life.
Before you know it your 2 yr old will be older and won't want to be held by you, won't want your help with anything and won't share with you the important things in life.
If you want your child to be able to talk to you when they are 12 - 16 - 21 - when you think they should be because of drugs, friends, sex etc.... then try forging that bond now, so that they will want to talk to you later!!
2007-05-16 01:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Shawna H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much time as possible. If you get bored, put something on t.v. that he/she likes for a little bit. Don't forget, they also have to learn how to play on their own and in the meantime, you are showing her how to interact with adults.
You could also take her to parks to play with other children, she will learn how to interact with people her same age.
2007-05-16 00:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by heather777s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have my 19 month old all day long. i understand how the kids games are boring, but they will never be that age again. if you don't make the most of the time now, you'll regret it later.
2007-05-16 09:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by dana b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much a possible, when your kids 16 you will want those times back
2007-05-16 01:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tutto Bene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no limit to how much time you spend with your kids. They need all the attention especially whilst they are just babies:-)
2007-05-16 00:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much time as you can, cause this is the age were they gain everything and would want to learn. I guess that this is the only time when you won't hear them complaining about their privacy and wanting you to be with them :)
2007-05-16 00:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MORE MORE time, it is growing up time, so parents presence and assistance is must for child to grow strong and confident
2007-05-16 00:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by JNK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋