He has a fiance. He was upset because I desserted him and felt hurt and got very angry towards me. I could not stand him and felt that he was sick and disgusting. I cannot imagine how any woman could stand being with him. I was thinking of sending a card saying congratulations. Should I send her a sympathy card instead?
I did not like him because he is smart mouthed and had a thing for very young girls. How could any woman stand being with him? He also tried to tell me what to wear, how to look, what coloured hair I should have. I did not listen to him and did what I wanted to do. OK, I am not upset, just feel confused.
2007-05-16 00:03:38 · 17 answers · asked by Alison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is still like that then surely his fiance would be able to figure that out on her own. Don't send a sympathy card (or anything like that) because then it would look like YOU WANT HIM BACK. Just let their relationship go, she will figure him out soon enough - or then again maybe he has changed since then?!
2007-05-16 00:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dave F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For whatever reasons you had loved him before. Now you saw his true colours and decided to leave him. Congratulations. His new girlfriend saw the same side as you did and fell in love too. If you're not jealous of her, then you can talk to her to get hints if he's still the same. Don't openly pry into her relationship but ask vague questions. Describe him as someone else and compare notes. Hear's what, say a little prayer for her that he'll change and she'll be happy.
2007-05-16 00:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by Hilary R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was treating u like this it doesn't mean he is treating his new woman the same. probably he learned his mistakes and is treating her a s a queen. and what's wrong with a man telling to his woman what to wear and what coilour of hair to have? i always am asking my husband that. it is sometimes so difficult to decide. so the only person who should get a sympathy card is u. cos u still care about that ex of yours. otherwise why would u bother about his woman?
2007-05-16 00:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their dating would desire to not have been very deep in the event that they broke up (and he or she's drowsing around to make him jealous.) it is not healthful for him to proceed any kind of "friendship" be it holding, sympathetic, or what with this lady. there'll come a element the place you will would desire to insist he decrease ties along with her, yet because it fairly is barely 8 months into your dating with him, now won't be the time. i does not make a extreme dedication with this guy till he removes her from the equation.
2016-11-04 02:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel whatever you want. It may not be a good idea to send anything at all however, especially if you don't want a situation on your hands.
It really is out of your hands now, the best thing for you to do is move on with your life.
Best wishes.
2007-05-16 00:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Rori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is her choice to be with him. You know what he is like. He may have learned from your past with him and is a better man with this new woman. If not, she will learn the same way you did. She won't listen to your warnings. She will think you are a jelous ex-wife. I would butt out and let her find out what life with him is like on her own.
2007-05-16 00:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved, it may be read as a sign that you can't let him go. You had to wake up to him after a time and so will all his new girl friends. You are better off out of it.
2007-05-16 00:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about him or his little world anymore
" get on with your own life, leave him alone"
Unfortunately any women he dates, they are going to have to discover for themselves the real him, you are only going to be looked as a jealous and spiteful ex if you say anything
2007-05-16 01:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Elisa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hatred you have for him is leaving you with too many negative emotions that could be destructive. Let go of him completely - physically, mentally and spiritually. Just magine he doesn't exist in your world anymore.
2007-05-16 00:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are allowed to feel anyway you choose and can feel what ever you like for is new fiance. But you can not share it with her. its not your place and besides that, it would make you look like you still have feelings for him no matter what comes out of your mouth. You and him didn't work for what ever reasons.But he works for her and that is what matters. as the old saying goes: To each their own.
bye gones.
2007-05-16 00:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋