I'm the eldest
I feel like sometimes I just shouldn't say anything then I won't get into a fight, but I want to have some relationship!
2007-05-16 00:01:14 · 8 answers · asked by Tay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
all that i can say is you are very lucky to have sisters to fight with. i don't have any sisters and wish i had one. i have a brother which i haven't seen in almost 4 years. so in my opinion ya'll should get it together. all you have is each other. life is too short to bicker over nothing.
2007-05-16 00:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the nature of the sister relationship. You will fight like over every little thing now, but once you get older and move away from one another, you will realize how important you are to each other. Don't take each other for granted. My baby sister passed away two years ago, and my heart aches for her every day. And believe me, we fought over absolutely everything as kids. One fight was because I was breathing TOO LOUD.
2007-05-16 07:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW does this sound like my relationship with my sisters! I am the middle. and I have a younger and an older sister. You know what I do when we have fights, I role it off my shoulder. I let them do there talking. Because no words are worth a relationship with not just your sister, but your best friend too.
-god new that I loved my sister so much, that he let her be my best friend too.
2007-05-16 07:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by src8784 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dun be too inclined to respond whenever they say something, esp if u think u can afford to ignore it. The other hand, it'd be stuffy keeping mum all the time, u can ask them nicely to "let" u when u need it most. If they think they have a choice, they likely feel big-hearted for letting.
2007-05-16 12:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by layna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being the eldest is a big responsibility. Part of this responsibility is to act maturely. Having a little patience and understanding over petty things. Treating your younger siblings like how you'd want them to treat you.
2007-05-16 07:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by majika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its called the 'yes,dear' approach. Whatever you say dear!
You are right, as usual!!!! Say it enough, she will stop and think about it. Usually the best thing is to just ignore it, unless its really important to you. tell her she is boring you with her constant moaning and groaning. Unless she is going to be positive you dont wish to speak to her. Otherwise....move out. Lifes to short for this rubbish. ESPECIALLY with family.
2007-05-16 08:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we all feel like that time to time. you need to sit down and have a talk to them.
just let them know that you don't want to fight with them anymore...trust me honey it ain't worth it. you need to tell them that life's just too short. anything could happen to anyone at any time...and you don't want to regret fighting with them mate
good luck...let me know what happens
2007-05-16 07:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u dont be worried.just give her some space.try to bear her.things ll be alright
2007-05-16 08:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by roaringlion74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋