Is Something Wrong With Me?

Question

I use to be really active and motivated in everything i do, but since about 1 and 1/2 years ago I have lost my motivation to work (but i do anyways but not as good as I should) and i'm becoming more forgetful. After spending some time in Iraq, i now find myself forgetting to do simple tasks someone asks me to do and all i want to do is sleep or sit on my back porch and chill. Are the two connected? Is it depression?

Answer 1

I think you should go and see a doctor, to me (not a doctor) it sounds like your depressed. Or possible your diet may have something to do with it- maybe changing this may give you a spring back in your step.

Like i said im not doctor but you should deff go to one - just for peace of mind.

Good luck x

Answer 2

I feel for you man.
I have a great deal of respect for anyone who's spend time in a country like Iraq. Emotionally and physically it'd be very draining.

Sitting on the back porch and chill'in isn't a problem, but to me (also not a doctor) it kinda sounds like you've been influenced by a very different perspective on life, and it may be causing you to lose interest in the 'here and now' of your own life.

I don't know if you need to see a doctor, but maybe you just need to go through all your thoughts with someone.

Good luck mate, and hope ya find your fire again.

Answer 3

You should go see your doctor. It does sound like you are depressed though. I am not a doctor so don't take my word for it. Here go some signs of depression though:

Emotional

Sadness throughout the day, nearly every day

Loss of interest in or enjoyment of your favorite activities

Feelings of emptiness or hopelessness

Feeling stressed, nervous, or overwhelmed

Trouble concentrating or making decisions

Feelings of worthlessness

Excessive or inappropriate feelings of guilt

Irritability or restlessness

Thoughts of death or suicide
Physical

Fatigue or lack of energy

Sleeping too much or too little

Change in appetite or weight

Aches and pains

Headache

Back pain

Digestive problems

Dizziness

If your doctor concludes that you are depressed, treatments and therapies are available. Below are some common risk factors for depression. You can talk with your doctor about them if any of them match what you are experiencing.

A family history of depression
Death or illness of a loved one
Stressful conflicts, such as fights with family members or disputes at work
Physical, sexual, or emotional abuse
Major life events, such as moving, graduating from college, changing jobs, getting married or divorced, becoming a new parent, or retiring
Financial difficulties

Answer 4

I think the disorder mmoonnii was referring to is Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. It is common in soldiers (or anyone) who has been through traumatic and damaging experiences (for example, seeing a lot of bloodshed and violence while serving military time.) While your symptoms don't really sound like P.T.S.D., it is still something to consider. The main symptom of the disorder is anxiety, and while you didn't list that as one of your symptoms, many people do not realize they have anxiety. This is because anxiety sometimes presents itself in symptoms such as fatigue and inactivity. Depression is just as serious of a disease, so either way please consult a medical professional, they can help you on your way to feeling as well as you used to. Good luck.

Answer 5

Lack of motivation and forgetfulness are typical signs of depression. Especially sudden onset of forgetfullness. You don't state how old you are.

It would be a advisable to get assessed by a psychiatrist.

Most depressions are treated by medication, so as to promote an increase of neurotransmittors.

Answer 6

I'm sure it wasn't easy being in Iraq. the fear alone can give you depression. If you have been over there on active duty, maybe you are suffering from the syndrome (I forgot the name) See a specialist, not only your GP

Answer 7

i really think you should see a doctor and soon. you don't want this feeling you have to be prolonged. perhaps what you saw in Iraq has affected you and you need to talk about it. do you have family or friends to talk to? that's a start. everyone always needs someone to talk to once in a while. we can't always go through life by ourselves, it's nice to have someone to talk to.
i wish you the best♥

Answer 8

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder - Therapy and medication is the best thing for it.

Answer 9

You should have said what you were doing in Iraq. Holiday or the Forces.

There was not much on your question for me to go on ... sorry .... can you do it again.